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When a woman dominates a man, he doesn't realise it. This is because she uses silence, manipulation and segregation. Deja needed to cut Martin off from his friends and family. She had been easily successful with his friends, had done well with his brother and sister, now faced the challenge of his mother. Would she be able to get rid of his mother?
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Getting Rid of His Mother
BookRix GmbH & Co. KG80331 MunichChapter One
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Even before they married, it was clear that in Deja’s world, her family came first. Her family would always come first.
She did not announce it over a loud speaker, she did not paint it on the walls, but anyone who spent time with Deja would be left no doubt that her mother and sister came first in her life and always would.
Perhaps Martin, who wasn’t much of a family guy, did not have the intuition to comprehend. Or as Deja suspected, he was just stupid.
Deja preferred stupid men as partners. This is because stupid people don’t know they are stupid. If they knew they were stupid, they would not be stupid.
Stupid people are the easiest to manipulate. Simply defer to them, let them think they are respected, then do exactly what you please.
If a stupid person confronts;
“Didn’t we agree to paint the kitchen blue?”
after it has been papered in yellow, start to cry.
The stupid person, in this case, Martin will assume the person he is speaking to, in this case, Deja, is very dumb and he should be a bit kinder to someone who doesn’t have his intellect.
If Martin wasn’t stupid he would have noted that Deja came into their relationship carrying her sister and mother, and then proceeded to isolate him from the shreds of family he possessed. He would have noted that Deja’s family and friends filled his life, so that he was virtually isolated.
Of course, Martin, being stupid and assuming Deja was dumber then he was, did not notice.
He did not notice that their marriage did not change the priority of her mother and her sister in her life.
If there was any conflict, Martin lost. If there were choices, the ones her mother and sister preferred out ranked his.
Martin’s grandmother owned the house in which they lived which intended to bequeath to him and his brother, Paul. Deja was able to manipulate Martin into purchasing the house from his Grandmother for a fraction of its value, and replacing Paul’s name on the title with her’s.
It might have been tricky, if Deja hadn’t been able to slowly drive wedges between Martin and Paul, but as usual, Deja got what she wanted.
Over the years, when her mother or sister came to visit the red carpet stayed out until they left. Nothing was a problem, nothing was too expensive, and they were to be treated as Royalty. This is how it has always been in her family. And always would be.
Deja was not surprised when after a number of such visits by her family he suggested that his mother visit, for after all, he wasn't an orphan.
Deja nodded.
