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Septuagenarian: love is what happens when I die is a memoir in poetic form. It is the author's journey from being a mixed-race girl who passed for white to being a woman in her seventies who understands and accepts her complex intersectional identity; and no longer has to imagine love. It is a follow-up to the author's previous memoir (prose), Love Imagined: a mixed-race memoir, A Minnesota Book Award finalist.
Praise for Sherry Quan Lee's Septuagenarian
In Septuagenarian, Sherry Quan Lee accepts her own invitation to look at life in retrospect, but with a new lens. Pulling from and expanding upon her previous body of work, she examines the version of herself that was writing at that time. The dignity and fire of her seventy-three-year old gaze taking in snapshots of those selves...straightens my spine and gives me a vision for myself traveling today into my future septuagenarian.
--Lola Osunkoya, MA, LPCC
Sherry Quan Lee writes courageously to understand herself and the world. She uses rich language and her skills as a storyteller to focus her sharp lens on what it means to have a complex, sometimes complicated identity: becoming invisible as she ages, a history of passing unseen, love and sex, grieving and celebration. She ruminates on history, which repeats itself in the current moment and widens her lens to look at the bigger, global picture to tell truths in poems that tenderly hold memory, time, rituals, trauma, mothering, fear of death and love in many forms. Her poems offer deeply personal, intimate and perceptive insights and opportunities to reflect on what it means to truly live. It feels like I've taken the journey with her, and I'm wiser for it.
--Shay Youngblood, author of Soul Kiss and Black Girl in Paris
From Modern History Press
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Septuagenarian: Love is What Happens When I Die
Copyright © 2021 by Sherry Quan Lee. All Rights Reserved.
ISBN 978-1-61599-568-4 paperback
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ISBN 978-1-61599-570-7 eBook
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Lee, Sherry Quan, 1948- author.
Title: Septuagenarian : love is what happens when I die / Sherry Quan Lee.
Description: Ann Arbor, MI : Modern History Press, [2021] | Summary: "Septuagenarian is a poetic memoir of the author's journey from being a mixed-race girl who passed for White to being a woman in her seventies who understands and accepts her complex intersectional identity; and no longer has to imagine love"-- Provided by publisher.
Identifiers: LCCN 2021008925 (print) | LCCN 2021008926 (ebook) | ISBN 9781615995684 (paperback) | ISBN 9781615995691 (hardcover) | ISBN 9781615995707 (ebook)
Subjects: LCSH: Lee, Sherry Quan, 1948---Poetry. | Racially mixed women--Poetry. | Identity (Psychology)--Poetry. | LCGFT: Poetry.
Classification: LCC PS3562.E3644 S47 2021 (print) | LCC PS3562.E3644 (ebook) | DDC 811/.54--dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2021008925
LC ebook record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2021008926
What must I give more death to today,in order to generate more life?
— Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Dedication
I Blame It on Education
Knowledge makes me more aware, it makes me more conscious. ‘Knowing’ is painful because after ‘it’ happens I can’t stay in the same place and be comfortable. I am no longer the same person I was before. —Gloria Anzaldúa
My world on fire!
Kindling: Maria Damon, Edén Torres, Linda Hogan,Nellie Wong, Nikki Giovanni, David Mura;
Cave Canem & Asian American Renaissance.
I keep a heart full of poems burning.
Know where you’ve been, but don’t live in the past. Know where you are going…but the most important thing is to know who you are.
—Shay Youngblood
Contents
Love Imagined
Exorcism
Night Tremors
Rite of Passage
Because She Is Old
Genealogy
What Preceded Today
A History of Separation
Separation Preceded Me
A History of Sexual Relations
China Doll
History Won’t Win
Guns in White Rooms
Haunted House
Memoir
A History of Rape
I’m Not Letting Go of Desire
It’s Always About the Mother
Mother’s and Mine
Silence
It’s Always About the Mother
The Curse of Color
I Didn’t Know Men
I Have No Regrets, But Now
On the Eve of Her Seventieth Year
I Didn’t Need to Save the World
I Woke to This Place
Suddenly, My Life Is Private
I Have Yet to Learn How to Pray
I Have No Regrets, but Now
Where in the World
How to Live
It Sounds Like an Excuse to Me
Language Is a Difficult Way to Communicate
The Difference Between Opinion and Authority
Where in the World
But the Truth Is
Mirror Mirror
This Year Love
It’s About Love
The Boy and the Girl, the Man and the Woman
The Conversation
Who Are You?
Age Has Everything to Do With It
Septuagenarian
Oh, Holy God
Pandemic
Apocalypse Twenty-First Century
Love Is What Happens
Obituary
Morning Glories
And When I Die
Found Poem
The World Is Heavy
Writing Exercise
Afterword
A Crown of No Regret
Love Imagined
One doesn’t have to imagine love, if one is love.
Exorcism
Baby born silent, silent as her mother’s wound;
still waters. Not a wave. Not a storm.
Mother was not ripe or willing.
Parthenogenesis. Father worked nights.
Sister was ten months old(er).
Silence. Invisibility. A small room to be born in.
Possessed, I held my breath, hoping death.
******
My Chinese father was absent, invisible.
Did he see me in my mother’s image and disappear?
Did he fear the afterbirth, smell the placenta?
Did he want my mother to stop loving him?
Did he want the baby girls not to be born?
Father ran through my veins like the money he spent gambling.
Was a blue-beaded bracelet what he had bet on; bet against
the girl baby, bet against me.
Mother never wore pink—or black.
******
I rose to the occasion from my own need to be born.
I couldn’t swim, but I didn’t drown.
My mother rode the river well;
I cursed and stomped and sank.
Death frequent.
mouth closed, legs open
I rose to be pinched and prodded, pushed and pulled,
cradled and craved—devoured.
I rose to see snakes. Fear snakes. Eat snakes. Curse snakes. Seek snakes. Rely on snakes. Snakes bigger than a fist. Snakes smaller than a pinky finger.
And then I rose
to hear a womyn’s voice. I liked her tenor—
charismatic as a Baptist priest. I was infused
with pleasure; born again and again.
Daydreams and nightmares. Demons gone.
Night Tremors
A brown baby stretches
kicking white sheets
don’t hold me
to your American history
the large print puzzle has
landed on the floor nonsense
someone says, the questions
and the answers are always the same
but, baby can’t sleep
pulls blankie over her head
historylives in her bed.
The weight a child wears
bears so much room for sadness.
Every morning, a woman searches
for answers to a difficult puzzle
for a man who isn’t there, a life
that isn’t hers, a story that repeats;
sheets made of yesterday
that smell like sorrow, past
dream and nightmare.
Rite of Passage
To imagine love is to believe love exists. To imagine love is to see between the lies—the truth that must be written. —Sherry Quan Lee
I think amidst all this terror I am alone
as I journey through this shroud toward love.
I hustle past the blues towards
jazz, a mixing of sky of bird
of thunder of flight;
fear ebbs and flows
hand to mouth
safety always a concern.
I can’t see within the skin, the bones, the blood
of my body—the fear of my own nature distant
like the galaxy not yet reached.
Sometimes it frightens me, not knowing how I will die.
I’m not afraid of when;