II The Intermediate Sex.
“There
are transitional forms between the metals and non-metals; between
chemical combinations and simple mixtures, between animals and
plants, between phanerogams and cryptogams, and between mammals and
birds.… The improbability may henceforth be taken for granted of
finding in Nature a sharp cleavage between all that is masculine on
the one side and all that is feminine on the other; or that any
living being is so simple in this respect that it can be put wholly
on one side, or wholly on the other, of the line.”O.
Weininger.
I Introductory
The
subject dealt with in this book is one of great, and one may say
growing, importance. Whether it is that the present period is one of
large increase in the numbers of men and women of an intermediate or
mixed temperament, or whether it merely is that it is a period in
which more than usual attention happens to be accorded to them, the
fact certainly remains that the subject has great actuality and is
pressing upon us from all sides. It is recognised that anyhow the
number of persons occupying an intermediate position between the two
sexes is very great, that they play a considerable part in general
society, and that they necessarily present and embody many problems
which, both for their own sakes and that of society, demand solution.
The literature of the question has in consequence already grown to be
very extensive, especially on the Continent, and includes a great
quantity of scientific works, medical treatises, literary essays,
romances, historical novels, poetry, etc. And it is now generally
admitted that some knowledge and enlightened understanding of the
subject is greatly needed for the use of certain classes—as, for
instance, medical men, teachers, parents, magistrates, judges, and
the like.That
there are distinctions and gradations of Soul-material in relation to
Sex—that the inner psychical affections and affinities shade off
and graduate, in a vast number of instances, most subtly from male to
female, and not always in obvious correspondence with the outer
bodily sex—is a thing evident enough to anyone who considers the
subject; nor could any good purpose well be served by ignoring this
fact—even if it were possible to do so. It is easy of course (as
some do) to classify all these mixed or intermediate types as
bad. It is also
easy (as some do) to argue that just because they combine opposite
qualities they are likely to be
good and valuable.
But the subtleties and complexities of Nature cannot be despatched in
this off-hand manner. The great probability is that, as in any other
class of human beings, there will be among these too, good and bad,
high and low, worthy and unworthy—some perhaps exhibiting through
their double temperament a rare and beautiful flower of humanity,
others a perverse and tangled ruin.Before
the facts of Nature we have to preserve a certain humility and
reverence; nor rush in with our preconceived and obstinate
assumptions. Though these gradations of human type have always, and
among all peoples, been more or less known and recognised, yet their
frequency to-day, or even the concentration of attention on them, may
be the indication of some important change actually in progress. We
do not
know, in fact, what possible evolutions are to come, or what new
forms, of permanent place and value, are being already slowly
differentiated from the surrounding mass of humanity. It may be that,
as at some past period of evolution the worker-bee was without doubt
differentiated from the two ordinary bee-sexes, so at the present
time certain new types of human kind may be emerging, which will have
an important part to play in the societies of the future—even
though for the moment their appearance is attended by a good deal of
confusion and misapprehension. It may be so; or it may not. We do not
know; and the best attitude we can adopt is one of sincere and
dispassionate observation of facts.Of
course wherever this subject touches on the domain of love we may
expect difficult queries to arise. Yet it is here probably that the
noblest work of the intermediate sex or sexes will be accomplished,
as well as the greatest errors committed. It seems almost a law of
Nature that new and important movements should be misunderstood and
vilified—even though afterwards they may be widely approved or
admitted to honour. Such movements are always envisaged first from
whatever aspect they may possibly present, of ludicrous or
contemptible. The early Christians, in the eyes of Romans, were
chiefly known as the perpetrators of obscure rites and crimes in the
darkness of the catacombs. Modern Socialism was for a long time
supposed to be an affair of daggers and dynamite; and even now there
are thousands of good people ignorant enough to believe that it
simply means “divide up all round, and each take his threepenny
bit.” Vegetarians were supposed to be a feeble and brainless set of
cabbage-eaters. The Women’s movement, so vast in its scope and
importance, was nothing but an absurd attempt to make women “the
apes of men.” And so on without end; the accusation in each case
being some tag or last fag-end of fact, caught up by ignorance, and
coloured by prejudice. So commonplace is it to misunderstand, so easy
to misrepresent.That
the Uranian temperament, especially in regard to its affectional
side, is not without faults must naturally be allowed; but that it
has been grossly and absurdly misunderstood is certain. With a good
deal of experience in the matter, I think one may safely say that the
defect of the male Uranian, or Urning,[1]
is not
sensuality—but rather
sentimentality. The
lower, more ordinary types of Urning are often terribly sentimental;
the superior types strangely, almost incredibly emotional; but
neither as a rule
(though of course there must be exceptions) are so sensual as the
average normal man.This
immense capacity of emotional love represents of course a great
driving force. Whether in the individual or in society, love is
eminently creative. It is their great genius for attachment which
gives to the best Uranian types their penetrating influence and
activity, and which often makes them beloved and accepted far and
wide even by those who know nothing of their inner mind. How many
so-called philanthropists of the best kind (we need not mention
names) have been inspired by the Uranian temperament, the world will
probably never know. And in all walks of life the great number and
influence of folk of this disposition, and the distinguished place
they already occupy, is only realised by those who are more or less
behind the scenes. It is probable also that it is this genius for
emotional love which gives to the Uranians their remarkable
youthfulness.Anyhow,
with their extraordinary gift for, and experience in, affairs of the
heart—from the double point of view, both of the man and of the
woman—it is not difficult to see that these people have a special
work to do as reconcilers and interpreters of the two sexes to each
other. Of this I have spoken at more length below (chaps.
ii. and
v.). It is
probable that the superior Urnings will become, in affairs of the
heart, to a large extent the teachers of future society; and if so
that their influence will tend to the realisation and expression of
an attachment less exclusively sensual than the average of to-day,
and to the diffusion of this in all directions.While
at any rate not presuming to speak with authority on so difficult a
subject, I plead for the necessity of a patient consideration of it,
for the due recognition of the types of character concerned, and for
some endeavour to give them their fitting place and sphere of
usefulness in the general scheme of society.One
thing more by way of introductory explanation. The word Love is
commonly used in so general and almost indiscriminate a fashion as to
denote sometimes physical instincts and acts, and sometimes the most
intimate and profound feelings; and in this way a good deal of
misunderstanding is caused. In this book (unless there be exceptions
in the
Appendix)
the word is used to denote the inner devotion of one person to
another; and when anything else is meant—as, for instance, sexual
relations and actions—this is clearly stated and expressed.