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Are you tired of getting into all the wrong relationships in your love life, work or at home? Are you tired of choosing the wrong friends? Are you tired of miss-reading your clients and therefore making bad business decisions? This little book is a self help guide assisting you to read and understand the people around you, knowing if you are going to be disappointed or not. I found that people want to over complicate things like relationships, which is quite a simple thing, if you assess it in the core for what it really is. Givers or Takers, nothing else. I have therefore explained it in ” Layman’s terms”. This little book has brought only joy to anyone that has read it, and I only wish peace and prosperity for you in your future relationships. My wish is to reach as many people as I can with this book, to create a better future for our children and mankind. “Mankind” has become” every man for himself” This could change if each person reading this book understands its contents and propagates it through a new way of living and thinking. Because you chose the right partner you have peace at home. Because you have peace at home, your kids look up to their parents and will become givers for their children. Because you chose the right job, you enjoy your work. A Utopia you say?...... I have reached this Utopia in my life and also anyone that allowed me to assist them. Let’s start getting your life to a place where you want it!
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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2015
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Forward
This book is dedicated to my loving partner Cornel and to my two kids Ruben and Ruan.
If it was not for the moral support of Cornel, I most probably would not have written this book, so all the thanks to her for believing in me.
This book is written and published in it’s raw form, too keep it in it’s most original form intended.
We all strive for truth, integrity and honesty because we seldom see it these days.
I have compiled this issue just in that manner.
The wisdom in this book is from personal experience and does not mean that the views written in this book will work in every instance, but from all the people that I have advised and relationships I have repaired, I believe it will work for you as well.
My electronics teacher use to say” the starting point is a well calculated guess and then we go from there”
So here we go.
Intro
I’ll give you a short summary and background of my life just to give you an idea of my experience.
I started school in Lydenburg in Mpumalanga and finished my school career in Port Shepstone in Natal.
From grade 1 right through 12 I was in a total of 11 schools, so I never had any long standing friends as we were not in one place long enough.
My parents got divorced when I was 10 and we (my brother, sister and I) stayed with our mother most of our childhood. Now I must add that I believe everyone experiences things in their lives differently to each other and deals with it all the same.
To me my childhood and most of my grown up life has been one disaster after another. I only started getting my life in order since last year.
My father, although I loved him until he passed away last year, was an alcoholic all his life and was one of the main reasons my parents got divorced.
If I only could have given this book to my father a couple of years earlier it might have changed his life.
Most of his childhood issues were never resolved and so we all suffered the result.
Just to give you an idea, my grandfather was a Lieutenant General, so my father was brought up the military way. He was never asked for his opinion but rather it was given to him. Leaving him in a position of never learning to have any confidence in himself and so the bottle became his best friend.
He married my mother after they finished their studies at university as teachers. They had this fairytale idea of marriage like most of us. They had a fairytale wedding as my mother’s father was the Mayor of Standerton and so the two prominent families had to have a proper wedding to keep up with the Joneses.
So they eventually got divorced after about 10 years of marriage and we since had four fathers in our lives.
My mother had the misfortunate event of meeting all the wrong guys for her. I believe if she used the methods explained in this book, most of our childhood trauma would not have occurred. Fortunately for you it did, otherwise I would not have written this book.
We as kids never really got along with most of the fathers and my mother was always caught in the middle, which divided us and made us to never having a proper relationship. I use to dread visiting any one of my parents. Since last year I have managed to restore my mother and my relationship and it is now better than it ever was. In fact, we are extremely protective of one another now.
I too got married after thinking “she is the one” and although she is a nice person she also did not deal with her childhood issues. If she and I had read this book before we got married, we might have still been together or never got married in the first place.
