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Have you ever asked yourself, why do I want to be in a relationship? Why do I feel that I need a boyfriend or a girlfriend?
This book will not tell you about the benefits of being in a healthy relationship. My purpose is to get you to analyze your reasoning, to become self aware, why in the first place? Now don't get me wrong, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting one. This book can give you more insight into other possible reasons.
Believe it or not, there are many motives that drive us to seek out relationships. There's absolutely nothing strange or wrong with being single. Maybe I can be intimate with myself first, learning to love all of me. We are still learning to understand who we are, therefore we can not always tell who or what we genuinely want.
I had to be honest and ask myself, what is my intent? Is there a hidden agenda behind my wanting to be liked or loved? I believe that if a person has a good relationship with themselves, then the constant desire to be in a relationship would end.
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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2019
Hey there reader, thank you for reading my book, my appreciation keeps me writing. My name is Abdul Mumin Muhammad, and as you can see I love writing about self-relationship. Every time I learn something new about myself, I feel a need to share it with the world. My spirituality inspired me to look inwards, and this also made me have a fascination with psychology. I love studying human behavior especially my own.
My wife and I are currently going through a separation, This is motivated me to keep writing and updating my books. I love you all and I hope this book helps you along your journey. peace
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By Abdul Mumin
Loneliness or feeling Sad?
Feeling lonely? This was once a deep empty feeling that was once inside of me. Feeling like something inside of me was missing, and that someone outside of me will fill in the emptiness.
Loneliness is a dangerous thing, this feeling can cause us to get into many risky, unhealthy, and dangerous situations. Do you know how much trouble and abuse I allowed on myself? The fear of being alone and lonely was the cause of most of my actions. I had to first accept that I was sad, and this feeling is only temporary. By not accepting my true feelings, I began to have thoughts like I need to party hard, go wild, have sex, drink, and smoke.
I had to be honest with myself, If I do any of these external things, would my loneliness go away?
But first, instead of trying to fill the void of loneliness with something external, we must first figure out why we feel this way and then we can deal with it. Most of the time it's parental issues. Was I loved enough and given enough attention from both parents? Everything starts at home. We can lose someone that was close to us, I moved around a lot as a child. I remember my first heartbreak, I felt lonely for years after that, I must have missed her presence.