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Alice celebrates the special moments and the everyday blessings of life. Come sit awhile with Alice Taylor. Take a little time out – to rest, to think, or just to be. Life can race along at a fast pace, sometimes almost stampeding us along with it. What a pity not to slow down and take the time to enjoy little things, or simply doing nothing or chatting with a good friend. Sometimes Alice finds a comfortable place to sit, maybe a low wall, a garden seat or a grassy bank. A place to let the mind calm down and let thoughts drift. With this book she invites you to share the special moments of life.
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Dedication
For Reese who loved all things bright and beautiful
There are times in life when we all need the presence of another human being. Maybe to sit together in silent companionship, to discuss something that is bothering us, to chat quietly about a shared interest or to enjoy an old joke. Covid robbed us of these interactions, resulting in a certain social withdrawal that is very slowly righting itself. There is a lot of wisdom in the Ralph Waldo Emerson quote: ‘Go often to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke up the unused path.’ How energising it is when an old friend calls by and you sit together enjoying a meeting of minds which leaves you feeling lighter. Even a phone chat can help move you forward.
But there are other days when friends are not available and we find it difficult to apply ourselves to what we need to do – and at such times the writings of somebody who experienced a similar situation to ourselves may echo in our mind and help us see a little kink of light that leads us on. Having a small treasury of such moments is a comfort that I cultivate. When we feel abandoned and not able to concentrate, the words of an old familiar poem, hymn or prayer can trickle into our minds and switch us back into gear. I keep a journal and also write little poems to capture fleeting moments.
How nice to sit and think awhile
Of little things to make you smile,
Happy things you did in fun
Long ago when you were young. …
This book is about taking time out, time to think, time to lift ourselves out of our everyday busy-ness. Along these pages we will recall stories, experiences and thoughts, and sometimes engage with wiser minds than mine to share words that have comforted many down through the years and that I find particularly helpful. Our ancestors have left with us the wisdom of their time when life was lived close to nature and incorporated a respect for the earth and for a greater power.
… To think of people who were kind
And left a ray of light behind,
People who were nice to know
When you were young long time ago.
So come and sit with me awhile
And think of things to make us smile.
Nature too can influence our sense of well-being. We have all known foggy, dull days when a low sky wraps a grey shroud around our shoulders and we trudge on, heavy-footed and glum-faced. And then comes a bright, sunny morning and unconsciously our step lightens, we move forward with a new sense of enthusiasm, a smile streams across our face – and suddenly it is good to be alive. We are hugely influenced by light.
Heat and light – what wonderful gifts that lift the spirit. It is so good to stop and soak them up. These moments are precious. Our ancestors knew this and had the expertise, wisdom and foresight to create the wonder of light at Newgrange, and when St Patrick lit his symbolic fire on the hill of Tara he sent shock-waves across the pagan plains of Ireland. Cathedral creators, with their awareness of the human need for morning light, faced the windows above the sanctuaries eastwards so that the rising sun could pour in and light up the minds of praying people. The symbolism of candlelight, too, beams forth from all religious traditions. At Easter the Paschal candle is lit, and at Christmas the old Irish tradition of the welcoming candle is part of who we are. When Mary Robinson was president she placed a lighting candle in a window of Áras an Uachtaráin, shining forth a welcome to our diaspora. And when hardship and hunger forced entire families to emigrate from the depths of rural Ireland the last member to leave the old home took a burning sod to a neighbouring house, carrying with it the hope that one day someone would return to rekindle a flame in that now-abandoned hearth. The symbolism of that firelight kept alive a hope that eased the pain of the forced departure.
Nowadays, in our local church here in Innishannon, a small candelabra constantly glows with little lighted candles. People slip in quietly to say a quick prayer and light a candle, and sometimes they pick up one of the little cards from a nearby shelf to let a friend in trouble know that a candle has been lit for them and that they are not forgotten. The comfort of this connectedness can help another keep going through tough times.
The day was long and dreary
And the burden I was carrying
Seemed heavier than I could bear.
But then suddenly it lifted,
And I did not know that
Someone had knelt in prayer!
Sometimes the words of a long-gone poet or pilgrim can raise us above the challenges of demanding days. In Come Sit Awhile we will share words that invoke the blessings of human, natural and divine light.
For me these words from Eleanor Farjeon turn morning-time into a celebration, and light up a scene full of vibrant energy and fond memories. What a wonderful salutation they are to energise us into another day. Sunbeams sparkle along the dew-laden grass, awakening the blackbird to a bright new beginning. Alerted by the new light, he breaks into song. The world is waking up, encapsulating the energy and grace of sunrise.
Morning has broken,
Like the first morning,
Blackbird has spoken
Like the first bird;
Praise for the singing,
Praise for the morning,
Praise for them springing
Fresh from the Word.
With these words you sense the whole world waking up with exuberant energy and enthusiasm. I experience this as an energising alleluia to dance us into fresh beginnings. The song/poem lights up the mind.
Sweet the rain’s new fall
Sunlit from heaven,
Like the first dewfall
On the first grass;
Praise for the sweetness
Of the wet garden,
Sprung in completeness
When his feet pass.
When I go out into the early-morning garden these lines dance around me. You get the sense that while you slept mystery had walked along the garden paths and the mystery of nature’s bounty is about to unfold all through the day too.
Mine is the sunlight
Mine is the morning,
Born of the one light
Eden saw play;
Praise with elation,
Praise every morning,
God’s recreation
Of the new day.
These energising and beautiful words are full of joy, and in them earth reflects heaven. They were much loved by my sister Ellen, which is why I often think of them. When sung in full choir the song salutes the wonder of nature, heaven and earth. Ellen loved it all her life and we sang it at her funeral service in Toronto where she died, and again later at the end of her final journey in Innishannon where she came back to rest in the place she so loved. On her headstone are inscribed the words ‘Morning Has Broken’.
When I stand there now, I silently sing the words of this uplifting song. It is so lovely to ponder these thoughts in the early morning. What an enrichment to our world are people who leave behind such awareness. Thank you, Ellen!
Ialways had a special grá for St Francis and he often makes himself present in quiet moments. Maybe this affection was planted in my childhood by a Franciscan cousin, Brother Matthew, who visited our farm with the folds of his brown habit hiding sweets, medals and holy pictures. The pictures of St Francis surrounded by animals and with birds resting on his hands echoed our own world on the remote mountainside farm, where we lived close to nature. That was a time when the Franciscans went begging from door to door in order to survive. Strangely enough, begging did not phase my cousin as in the process he got to know some wonderful people – and it also afforded him the opportunity to spread the peace message of St Francis in which he fervently believed:
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace:
where there is hatred,
let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy.
When I got married Br Matthew gave me this prayer, beautifully framed to grace my new home. Occasionally over the years, I picked it up and read it, endeavouring to absorb some of its wisdom. Then some years ago I heard Sinéad O’Connor sing a beautiful rendering of it on ‘The Late Late Show’, and this took it to another level. I felt that St Francis had moved with the times and was now endeavouring to spread his peace in more up-to-date ways.
Some years ago I visited Assisi and brought home under my arm a statue of St Francis, which, during the summer, enjoys the garden and at Christmas guards the crib. It was Francis who instigated the practice of erecting the crib at Christmas, a tradition I really love, so it is fitting that he should rotate between his two favourite venues.