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Dantse Dantse

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• Kategorie: Erotik
• Serie: Reggae Love
• Sprache: Deutsch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2022

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In order to come to Europe with his family, the married Johnny, father of two children, develops a perfidious plan that looks worldwide for its equal. Now he has found the white woman and married her. The first part of his plan works: He is in Europe. But how can he bring his alleged sister there too? The resourceful Johnny finds the solution in the brother of his new, white wife. Volume 3 tells of the perfidious execution of his plan and how he raves about his "sister" to his brother-in-law for so long that said brother-in-law travels to Cameroon, falls in love with her, marries her and brings her to Europe. The four live together with the children in a family house – a Ménage à quatre, that the two white siblings know nothing off until the third part of his plan works. Volume 3 tells of the difficulties of Afro-European relationships in Europe in a way that they also happen in reality. Difficulties that cause Afro-European relationships to fail and break people. It is often very painful when telenovela-love ends and the reality of every-day-love begins. Afro-European relationships are presented, including cliches, realistically, like never before the case. The reader experiences an Afro-European relationship within their European culture with all its cliches and misunderstandings. You will also learn of the everyday fight of Africans in a society, in which racism is not always called racism, even within relationships. This trilogy is able like seldomly aother book before it to take the reader deeply into a magical, African world full of adventures, into an unknown, almost mystical culture with it easy way of living and its many helpful wisdoms. A world, where clocks run into a different direction and then everything goes forwards.

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Dantse Dantse

Cover Reggae Love 3 Reggae Love Love in an African Way Thousend Ways out of Africa „I love you Baby“ has many meanings

Volume 3 Fire meets ice: Telenovela-love becomes daily routine-reality-love in Germany.

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Titel

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Reggae Love Love in the African Way Three white woman, one black man Black Love – Black Sex –White Passion

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Why do I write?

An interview with Dantse Dantse

Foreword

Reggae Love Black LoveBlack Sexwhite Passion – thousand ways out of Africa Three white women, one black man

What happened so far:Summary Volume 1 and Volume 2

Volume 1: Love Hurricane in Cameroon – Fire meets Ice

Volume 1 Reggae Love: Important Excerpts

Johnny’s affair with Carla, his first white woman

A conversation between Mauritz and Carla about her liaison with Johnny

Flirt between Johnny and Anna, who becomes his second white woman

Johnny sees the woman who will become his third white woman for the first time: Liege

Volume 2 Reggae Love: Important excerpts

Last Chapter, Volume 2: Important Excerpts Anna confesses her love to Johnny and wants to go back to Cameroon for a week

Anna wants to go back to Cameroon

Talk about Afro-European Relationship: Roger’s Opinion

Anna is back and a special welcome

Liege gets back in touch and makes him an offer

Discussion about universal values and about love

Johnny asks Anna not to force anything

Seductive offer: Anna offers to marry Johnny so that he will not go to Belgium but come to Germany

Liege arrives and Anna is there – End of Volume 2

Volume 3: The Decision, the Weddings and the painful and sad life in Germany and the Tragedy.

Starting Point

Liege back in Kribi

Johnny tells Roger about his funny night with Liege

Johnny tells Rita the good and promised news and his plan

Six months later: Johnny’s arrival in Germany, Darmstadt

Arrival and first day in Germany

Johnny’s life in Germany

Johnny sleeps with Cansu, Tony’s Girlfriend and brother of Anna

Misunderstandings accumulate

It’s over, It’s all over: End of the story in volume 3

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In order to come to Europe with his family, the married young man Mendo choup ke joug Evarist Dieu ne dort, called Johnny Walker, develops a plan that is unparalleled in the world: A white woman, a “Mrs. Visa” must come! He must then get her to marry him so he can leave. He pretends his now wife is his sister, and his children are his nephews and nieces. Having arrived in Europe with his white wife, he wants his “sister” and her children to join them. The first part of the plan works: He is in Europe. But how does he get his “sister” to him? The resourceful Johnny develops the second part of the plan. His white wife has a brother whom he raved about his “sister” until he flies to Cameroon, falls in love with her, marries her and brings her to back to Europe. Then all four live with the children in a common family house – a ménage à quatre, of which the two German siblings have no idea until the third part of Johnny’s plan takes shape…

This trilogy manages to immerse the reader deeply into a magical world full of adventure, into a strange, almost mythical, culture, with its ease of life and its many helpful wisdoms. A world where the clocks run in a different direction and yet everyone moves forward. Afro-European relations, including clichés, are portrayed as realistic and entertaining as never before.

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Reggae Love Love in the African Way Three white woman, one black man Black Love – Black Sex –White Passion

Volume 3:

Hi, Baby, I love you and the consequence: The decision, the wedding, the painful and sad life in Germany and the tragedy

Volume 2: The moving fight for love – just words or proof of love?

Volume 1:

The funny and exciting search for the white „Mrs. Visa“

Based on true events

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Dantse DantseDantse Dantse comes from Cameroon and is a knowledge teacher, knowledge coach, entrepreneur and multiple bestselling author with over 120 books in German as well as in other world languages. He writes self-help-books, non-fiction books on health, psychology, parenting and novels. He is publisher, a founder, an expert in nutrition, the human mind and of personality-developmental-science. Dantse Dantse works and lives in Darmstadt.

As a child he lived together with 25 siblings. His father was married to 3 women simultaneously, they all lived together on a property. Values like giving, sharing, emotions, love, jealousy, patience, and compassion are differently nuanced there compared to a so called “normal” family. These childhood experiences, his African roots, the European influence and his many years of coaching experience make him see some things differently act differently and be different. There is something refreshing and inspiring and enriching about it.

As an unconventional author, he enjoys writing and publishing books that reflect his intercultural experiences. Books about values and topics that society does not like to address and prefers to sweep under the rug, but which affect millions of people, such as family energy vampirism, homosexuality, sexuality, organ trafficking, racism, mental disorders, sexual abuse in families, etc. He writes and publishes books that aim to explain, change and improve – be it through his advice, non-fiction, novels, children's books or political blog comments.

Dantse Dantse's books, all of which are African inspired, change lives. They are intended to help you think and rethink, broaden your horizons, bring the world together and honor Africa. The charming publisher of indayi edition, http://www.indayi.de, the publishing house for special books, says: "My dream is to publish even more books by African authors". For Dantse Dantse, Africa is at the center of his work.

With his innovative and inimitable African-inspired knowledge and life theory "DantseLOGIC", www.dantse-logik.com, which has made him a sought-after knowledge teacher and successful coach, he helps people to achieve their goals and to be successful and happy in the long term and to fight diseases without medication.

Apart from that, he is also the founder of the online portal KLICKLAC, an online platform for buying and selling digital guides, http://www.klicklac.de. This online marketplace enables authors and consultants as well as people from other professional backgrounds worldwide to sell their knowledge or their books chapter by chapter in text, audio or video form. The users should also benefit from this: They can buy the advice they really need for little money and do not have to buy the entire book.

His motto is action and at the same time program "Your success alone is my benchmark, this is what I stand for with my good name and reputation."

His distinctive writing style, shaped by his African mother tongue, is his distinguishing feature and was preserved in the text and only carefully edited. His books are now being translated and published in many languages around the world so that more people can benefit from his wealth of knowledge.

Dantse Dantse

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Why do I write?

Think diverse,

because you can be anything.

Why do I write?

I write for diversity

I write for diversity of thought

I write for the diversity of knowledge

We must have the power and the right to think differently

We must always be able to ask questions

We need to empower ourselves to question things no matter who it comes from, even if it comes from the President, from the Pope, from Prof, Dr. Dr. von Nobel laureates ... we must take the power to question everything they say they do.

When you’re told right is right, ask yourself why left is wrong.

In a world ruled by money, manipulation, interest, vitamins, relationships, it is legitimate or even negligent not to do it if you don't question everything. It's a sin if you don’t check everything people say and do, even if you believe them.

Man should not be trusted even according to the Bible. You shouldn’t even trust yourself. Always constantly check what comes out of you, what you think, what you want, what you feel like doing. Check them out and question them too. You will be amazed at the insights you gain and why you should think differently.

That’s why I write so that we broaden our horizons instead of narrowing them down and limiting ourselves.

I write for the variety of possibilities that lie dormant in people.

I write to tell people that if they think diverse, if they recognize their diversity, they can and will achieve much more.

I write for diversity so that we don’t just look in one direction.

I write so that we can see a thing in as many of its facets as possible.

They tell you that you can only think and be left, right and centre.

I tell you that everything is not right. You limit yourself. You can be anything.

I am writing so that you know that in one person you can think and be left, right, centre and even must be.

I write for the diversity in people. You can be a meat lover, vegan, and vegetarian at the same time. You can and should be all of that.

I write for polygamy, polygamy as variety in love, polygamy in thought, polygamy in political belief, polygamy in knowledge, polygamy in culture, polygamy in religion.

I write for the diversity of knowledge and in the knowledge. In addition to school science, there is still enormous, inexhaustible knowledge in nature that is much more powerful.

Many journalists asked me about my positioning, about my target groups, why I teach and write in many areas instead of specializing. I answered them:

Is the body specialised in just one thing?

Can your eyes function well without your gut?

Can a subconscious function well without the conscious mind?

Can your sexuality function well without your diet and your psyche?

Can you be happy in your job if you are unhappy in your family?

Everything is in one.

It’s not ignorance when you’re multifaceted and global, but it’s a lack when you’re only specialized in one subject.

Burnout at work can have more to do with poor nutrition than the job.

Impotence can have to do with what you drink.

Pain in your eyes can have to do with your bad gut.

How can you want to treat a person without being spiritual? Without installing the values in it?

How can you offer a personality development course without being all in one at the same time? etc...

A coach, a teacher who doesn’t know himself well in many areas can only give tranquilizers to people.

I against solutions that can finally eliminate the problem.

A psychologist who is not at the same time a sex therapist, a nutritionist, a biologist, a mathematician, a spiritual person who has little connection with nature and its laws can hardly help a patient in the long term.

That’s why I am diversity and positioning-free.

It will not be who wants it, but who can do it and I can do it. I’m very fit in many subjects and that’s why I create things that many call magic, only through my theory of knowledge,

the DantseLogic.

Everywhere people only set limits, hurdles, they always want to exclude, although God wants to bring all people together. Good or evil, rich, or poor, honest or fraudster, criminal or law-abiding:

It rains on everyone’s head, the sun shines on everyone.

Such is God.

We are diversity and I write so that we can and are allowed to see in all directions. We’re allowed to do that.

We have eyes to see and not to be blind.

We have ears to hear and not to be deaf.

We have mouths to speak and not to be mute.

If Jesus had not spoken, he would not be what he is today, and the world would not be what it is today

That’s why I write.

An interview with Dantse Dantse

“Use the support of the nature.

It is here to help.”

Knowledge teacher Dantse Dantse, when and in which year did you start to invent your theory DantseLogic?

You can’t answer this question with a year or certain moment. It came gradually.

It already started when I was 12 after I met a wise, old man in Cameroon my father introduced; a man who lived in the forest and had no contact to the civilization and never has seen a white human.

This man told us about things which were incredible for me, because in this moment it was greater than what I had learned in school. He had knowledge from things which only appeared in science 40 years later. I had learned many things from my father and in the science school in Africa, but after I met this man who talked about mathematics, physics, astronomy, biology, chemics much more precise than what I learned in school, I decided to learn more about the knowledge about logic.

This was the first moment where I knew that with logic and a different way of thinking in connection with the understanding of the laws of nature you could be able to change a lot. Things you could call magic, but which are based on logic. This was the first moment where I started to understand the power of logic in connection with the laws of nature.

It continued like that over the years, and I continuously improved myself; I researched for myself and with people of different religious beliefs.

I have been with Buddhists to understand their logic;

I have been with Muslims to understand their logic;

I was with Hinduists to understand their logic.

I got to know many lodges like Rosa Kreuz, Rotary Club and the freemasons and studied the philosophy behind it to understand the logic.

I dealt with the laws of nature; with the science of mathematics, biology and physics and realized that everything has a logic.

After this yearlong study it got clear that nothing is magic.

There are only phenomena which procedure we do not understand; but everything always has an explanation, and everything always has a logic.

I slowly realized; if you see the logic behind a thing, you have the power over it and you can deal with it however you want. If there is a problem, you can find the solution.

That’s why it was a process in which I learnt very much. This process took many years and is still ongoing. I haven’t arrived yet. I’m always learning, I’m very curious; I read very much; I study everything that is new in each field, from science to the things you call esoteric; I study everything. That’s why there is no certain time where I decided to invent my theory. It was a hard work and learning process.

It continues to this day because I always think that I don’t know everything yet and that many things are still ahead. It motivates me to continue learning.

In the past 15 to 20 years, I was able to really change something with this logic, help many people and even myself.

With it, already 20 years ago, I did some things my environment declared as impossible but which I achieved and which, up until now, if I tell people about it, nearly no one believes.

This development was a process and very hard work; sometimes even depressing at the beginning. After many disappointments I finally got access to this logic. It became better and better. I’m still not satisfied, and I won’t be satisfied with my life ever, because if I know that one thing, then it’s certain that there are better things. The better is always what I’m looking for without being a perfectionist. I don’t like perfection. It only slows me down.

In which period have the 120 books been written?

They have been written in the past 25 years; but only in my head at first. This was the biggest and hardest work. Now, converting it onto paper or my computer happened in the past 10 years. 120 books, even more, sounds like very much; nearly impossible for this time, but it’s normal with the logic I invented. The theory that I understood is what helped me to write this amount of book within a few years, to achieve this performance which one sees as impossible. It’s the proof that my theory works.

I, myself, am the proof because many of my book are more than 300, 400 pages long, some over 1000 pages long. You can probably imagine how difficult it is to write just 10 of these books. Yet writing books isn’t my only task of the day. I advise people, work on other projects like klicklac.de, I’m a family person and I care for my children and family daily, meets friends, go on walks, yes, I don’t lock myself up, I’m living normally even though very unconventionally.

Yes, to achieve this in the past 10 years and the 40 books which will come in the next year would be called impossible. But what I do (because it’s always good to practice and show what you do on yourself) is the proof that impossibility doesn’t exist if you work together with nature and understand the logic.

You only see my 10 fingers which work and tap. If I would only use them, I wouldn’t even be able to write 2 or 3 books within a year. This means, I would have 20 to 30 books by now. If I would only use my head, I wouldn’t be creative anymore but already tired today.

Since I started to write down the things that had already been written in my head into my computer for other people to implement nature has always been with me and helped me.

That’s what I always tell my readers, customers, and students:

“Use the support of the nature. It is here to help.”

This is an important element in the DantseLogic.

From the beginning there has only been the good. God put so much strength into the nature to simplify the life of his children. But the humans didn’t use this opportunity because they thought they’re strong enough to make it on their own. They lacked humility and strength to see that they are nothing, that they aren’t important enough, that they aren’t strong enough and need help.

Maybe my problem was that I am weak and have been weak. I wanted to achieve something I couldn’t achieve on my own. That’s the reason why I decided to take a different path to have it easier. I wanted to achieve so much, wanted to do so much for the world and the humans so God will be satisfied because I contributed to our wellbeing, but it was too much for me. I stood in front of it and I had to realize I won’t make it with my own power. It hurt me to realize how small and limited I am. I had to look for support, because not being able to achieve my goals because I am too weak was never up for debate. My studies in the science school in Cameroon which I visited since my childhood helped me.

Nature is stronger than the human and doesn’t need the human. But she has everything the human needs and within her is the power of God who shaped the nature so she will help us, not as a servant but as a master.

This way I finally realized the real power of nature and studied how the laws are actually working. You can only write with 2 hands, with 10 fingers and the nature gives you additionally 40 if you ask for it. The problem is you don’t see what nature gives you. That’s why you believe nature isn’t helping you.

Sometimes I started writing books and have been surprised that I finished them within a short period of time. I couldn’t explain it, but I knew and I felt that the nature is writing with me. I can’t really put it in words, but my customers who look for me for their problems can also explain these effects a little. Some worked 20 hours a week and were overwhelmed, tired, done. Now they work 40 hours a week and have more energy, are livelier. They earn more money with less effort. The nature is helping them.

A German customer for example came to me with his money problems and now he earns a few more hundred euros without doing much more; without having a salary negotiation. How do you explain something like this?

We are interconnected through the logic and above us is nature; and above nature is God.

What exactly made you invent this theory?

I did it to help people and to leave something behind on earth which can help people even without me. Mostly certain experiences precede these fundamental decisions. I experienced highs and lows in my life which made me do it.

What affected me was the wish to achieve something big for humanity with the African knowledge about nature which I learned over many years, and yes, with it something useful which will help humans to have a happier and better life. Something that simplifies the life. I felt weak and small in front of this mammoth task. Humbly realizing that I can’t achieve this with my human opportunities paved the way for me to find something that will help me to reach this goal. How could I have written over 120 of these difficult books that really help? Maybe when God would have given me 200 or 300 years of time for it. I wouldn’t have made it.

But, especially in Africa, I learned what is possible. What is possible limitlessly. I wanted to do so much but I realized that it’s impossible for one human alone. I found myself weak across from this mammoth task I wanted to manage; that’s why I started to look for an alternative. That’s a reason why I did it and for my wish to give the world and humanity something and spread the African knowledge. My realization that I am weak. My humility made me become what I do.

Another important reason is thankfulness.

For this I will tell a story from my family. I grew up in a rich family which lived in a villa with chauffeur, maids, gardeners, etc. With 16 I was already allowed to drive cars with one exception and drove to school by myself. My life lacked nothing even though my father had 3 women and more than 30 children.

My father achieved prosperity; prosperity not only for himself but for the whole big African family and his many siblings his father left behind. He achieved prosperity for his children; the children of his sisters and brothers; half-brothers; all lived with us. He paid for everyone down to their underpants. This means, the family came, left their children, and left without paying one cent. He had to pay for everything by himself. He never complained about it. He always said we must be thankful for what we have. If you have one piece share it so everyone can have a piece of it.

He always told me that it’s his purpose in this world to give something to as many humans as possible. It really impressed me. Even before my graduation I swore that I will do much more than my father. Not in the amount of money he had, not in the number of buildings he had. But in helping more humans than my father. It was a sticking point in my life. I always told myself: “I never suffered; I woke up and everything already existed. God was there for us.” And every time I heard how my father suffered to get where he was now, I cried and was ashamed that I have nearly everything but haven’t achieved as much as him. I wasn’t even 14.

I thought if someone from a real village without a father can achieve what he did then I have no reason to not help much more people than my father. That was my decision. It was clear to me. I, who had this luck to live in a family with prosperity, must, if my father has helped so many people even though he came from a poor family, help umpteen times more people than my father.

I wanted to be thankful for God and my father. I thought he is very proud of me. I know it and I’m happy that I stayed true to this “oath”. I should show him my gratitude; him who has always been there for others, him who always wanted to help other people. A man who only lived with and after the values. To continue what he did and even without his help—nearly alone, like him—is a gesture of gratitude.

When exactly did I start to practice my theory?

It was a deep, hard moment in my life when I decided that I wanted this to be my occupation. It was the divorce with my German wife who I had 2 children with. It was an absolute low in my life. It was sad, it was hard. It was also a moment were all happiness left me.

Up until then I continuously was in the business with Africa; nearly every 2 months I was away. When I was there, I dealt with my children intensively. Back then, money dominated my mind. Money, money, money …

I thought I could help people through money. If I have more money than my father then I can help more people, as I thought. I never thought about myself. In my head there was always: “If I have so much money I will build the school, if I have so much money, I will do this and that”. I never had the thought if I have so much money, I will build a castle or I will buy myself a nice car. Someday it will happen that I will think about myself; but up until now it never happened. I earned money and helped many people with money. I helped many social facilities in Cameroon I never wanted this to become public. I helped children on the street, gave seed capital to many people I didn’t even know. It happened many times that someone spoke to me on the street who I later helped. I was always surprised that they were thankful because I didn’t even know them anymore. Yes, money was always in the center, but I wasn’t happy. I had fame, was the best-known man in Bafoussam (West-Cameroon) but I was unhappy.

And after the divorce which hurt me in the first moment because of the children – I was very embarrassed and saw me as a failure who couldn’t secure a real family for his children like my father did – and suddenly I made the decision to not go back to Africa. It was the best decision I ever made. I came back from a trip to Africa, the thing (divorce) happened, and I decided I would stay with my children. The business and money are over. Period. Enough. Done. I made a cross on it. One can imagine what happened after. Much pain, many problems, with money, too. And suddenly I cancelled my old profession. I was standing there with nothing.

I had a business, a limited liability company with two Germans who had been friends with my wife. When they heard we were divorced, they immediately left. I was overwhelmed. I left everything and stood there without money. I started to take jobs on construction sides again. There had even been a Christmas where I didn’t have money and had to go cadge. In the end, I got €10 from a woman and €25 from a catholic parish. With this I spent Christmas and the new year with my children. I also bought presents from it. I once went to football with my son in winter by foot and I often had to wait on the empty village train station for the train for hours. It was cold, but we sat there and sang and were happy. I told him story that made happy and gave hope. I didn’t have a car anymore. One day we came from practice, and I had to carry him nearly 3 kilometres (he was 12) because his feet hurt, and I didn’t have money to pay for the bus. No one had been there for me. Everyone who I had helped were gone. No one wanted to see me. I’ve never been so poor in my life before since I was born. This experience strengthened my father-children-relationship. But we have never been unhappy. I was sure I can made it. Back then I sometimes thought about my deceased father and his wealth. But I stayed strong that I didn’t want anything from his heritage.

But surprisingly, I was happier without money. I was more positive. I often slept without eating but I worked hard on myself. I felt that I was on the right path even though I got laughed at and everyone insulted me. But this was the moment where I heard my inner voice the loudest to do what I always wanted to do. You must help people now and you don’t need money for it. This means all theories I had learned have to be put on paper now. I had to create a therapy. I gave myself this promise. Everything came in this moment. I had to make a theory out of it which could help people, and which could be read by people so they can find solutions for their problems, I told myself. It was the same moment when I decided to write books. It was like that.

Back then, people were hard on me, no empathy, probably like I was to them and didn’t realize. What they showed me was only the answer for the man I was. I wasn’t the best, the righteous, the one who always says the truth. No, I was different. I thought I was a good person. The reaction of people in this weak stage made me realize how bad I must have been. Until then I didn’t understand why these people loved me and did everything for me. I have never been thankful. Everything was good and went the way I wanted it. Yes, I got what I deserved, and it was good that way. I understood what and how people are. But it gave me courage and the ability to see the good in these people. I only kept the best. I decided that humans don’t have to suffer like I did. I decided that I will never hurt people with what happened to me and with what people did to me. We can do good. The human is good. God is true, the good is good. I will do my best so people will have a good life. That’s what I decided. Poverty strengthened me in my decision to do everything that people will have a good life. It became a permanent vocation. I found my life purpose.

These were the hard moments and the last step I needed, and which became my greatest happiness. I always thank God that this decision came even though we didn’t have a problem. My ex-wife and I; we get along well. We cared for our children well. Everything went well; but God, or let’s say the nature, decided that it come as it had to come so I will do what I promised God and my father. The divorce with my wife paved a way that led me here. I’m very thankful for her, too.

I must mention something else: After the divorce I found the life that was made for me. I had bent a lot to live conventionally even though I’m different. I had always been misunderstood. I had so many qualities, so much energy, I dreamt big, but my environment saw me as an oddball. Since I wasn’t worried, wasn’t scared they said I was irresponsible. My fellow people made me to someone I wasn’t. The divorce happened and released me out of this prison. It was my greatest happiness. I understood it later and I also understood my ex-wife later. She couldn’t understand me back then. The divorce was also much better for me when I moved out. As if a curtain opens before my eyes. I realized; I had learned many things; I wanted to achieve much but up until now I adapted. I lived a life not for me. I lived a life so people around me in my family are living good. And not I. And every time when I wanted to do what I wanted I was criticized and got scared and worried: “Are you thinking about the future? Are you thinking about our pension? Why are you like that? You are irresponsible. You are living carefree.”

I was responsible. But I only noticed that later. People around my; my family lived in the mainstream and everything that wasn’t mainstream scared them. They wanted me the way most people are. I didn’t take part in it anymore.

I wanted something else. I simply didn’t want to be like everyone else. My decision came early: I will, and I must live differently to achieve what I want to achieve. I can be a great father; a great man who can accept the structure of humanity and still be unconventional. I didn’t have to share the same appartement with my wife, the same bed, the same friend, etc.

I think differently,

I am different.

I don’t see limits other people see;

I’m not scared, and I have knowledge.

People around me don’t have my knowledge. That’s why they underestimated me. Some thought I’m crazy or a gamer, but after this divorce I found myself and decided: Never again. A few weeks after I moved out, I told myself: “Never again will I live conventionally. Never again in my life”. That was the beginning. I can tell people only:

“Live your life. If you’re unhappy with your life change it.”

Only you can do it differently.

Foreword

This novel is based on true events.A true story in which all parties concerned see themselves as the victim.

It shows what people in Africa and other countries are willing to do to get to Europe, “the paradise”. There are no moral limits anymore and the more Europe closes its doors, the more resourceful and smart prospective emigrants get.Many men in Africa pretend to be in love with European woman to get to Europe – that is well-known. It is also known that many European woman do the same; they take advantage of young, well-built Africans just to enjoy life or to act out their fantasies. Many even know that there are cases where European woman do not even suspect their African men to have wives and children at home and it does not surprise anyone anymore. But this case is different and exceeds everything a normal person could ever imagine.

This novel addresses the different cultural perceptions of Afro-European partnerships and shows how these relationships can be beautiful, passionate, contagious, and affectionate but also how they reach their limits and what often makes them fail. Through this book, the reader finds out how severely everyday life in Europe influences and burdens the relationships and what mistakes the partners make concerning hurting, discrimination against, and lack of appreciation of the other one’s culture. Sensuality plays a great role in many black-white relationships.And this novel confirms the logic and describes it very dramatically, without inhibition or taboo, as it happens in many black and white relationships.

I have had many conversations with people on both sides of such intercultural relationships before and while I was writing the novel. As a coach I often deal with such constellations. I have met Africans, and still meet them, who have married European women for similar reasons; I have also met women who have experienced something like this. With this novel, I want to display the situations, motivations, everyday experiences, conversations (that are conducted in front of or behind the partner’s back), the families’ and social environments’ reaction in both cultural areas, the many clichés without taboos, the sex and the longing – that plays a very important role in it – as real and realistic as possible.

I have described especially the sex scenes in detail in this book – which surely stirs up the blood of many. These erotic scenes will be familiar to those who know black sex. Someone who has never made erotic experiences with a black man or woman might think that these narratives may be exaggerated and unrealistic but, to me, it was important to portray the matters as realistically as possible – simply because it is that way.

A very suspenseful story developed which will captivate the reader even though it ends dramatically and painfully. You dive into a magical world full of adventure, into an unknown culture with its lightness of life and its many helpful wisdoms. In this culture, many things that might be hard to imagine for Western people are natural and obvious. Life should not always be taken so seriously. Much happens without our intervention anyway. So, why worry? The reader learns about unbelievable, suspenseful, very funny, and also painful, but real experiences and gets to know the African Way of Life up close – as though they were there. You start reading and cannot stop.

The novel does not only narrate the gruesome and hard story of Johnny, but it also tells you in a funny and lively way about real life in Cameroon and Germany.

Only the first few lines of the novel will make the reader fantasise about life in Africa and you can figuratively imagine what is going on there. A world where clocks tick somewhat differently sometimes. A world full of discoveries, magic, surprises.

Only few novels have “revealed” so many “secrets” about these Afro-European relationships in such detail and without taboos or detours. Clichés – that we know in both cultures – belong there, too and are going to be made subject of the novel without fuss or quibble.

I changed names and places. The man was not from Cameroon. I chose Cameroon because I could empathise with it the most. I chose Darmstadt as the German city for the same reason.

Volume 1 tells us about Johnnys search for a white woman, Ms. Visa, the woman who is supposed to open the door to Europe for him. He gets to know his first white woman.

In Volume 2, there are two more women; they complicate Johnny’s decision and the dramatic fight of love runs its course. The majority of the events in those two volumes happen in Cameroon.

Volume 3 narrates the perfidious realisations of Johnny’s plan, who is now living in Europe with his wife. He talks about the difficulties as they happen in real life. Difficulties that cause most Afro-European relations to fail.

Readers experience Afro-European relationships in a European society as close and real as ever, with all its clichés. They learn how she is shaped and what makes the relationship so beautiful, erotic, passionate, fantastic, but also the very painful downside. They learn about the daily struggle of the African in a society where racism is not always racism, where discrimination is very subtly on the agenda and how they unconsciously burden the relationship and how these couples deal with it. They also read about the difficulties of the white woman, who stands between her culture and the fascinating macho world, with honour and pride.

There is more truth in this novel than you might think.

You can also get both volumes individually. We decided to publish the book in four parts because 1300 pages of the story would make it very expensive as an anthology. The reader does not have to pay as much when buying the individual volumes and they have the advantage to start with one book and only purchase the second one if they liked the first one; that saves money and time.

Reggae Love Black LoveBlack Sexwhite Passion – thousand ways out of Africa Three white women, one black man

Published to date:

Volume 1

Volume 2

Anthology1 & 2

And now: Volume 3

What happened so far:Summary Volume 1 and Volume 2

On his trip to Kribi in Cameroon, he meets a group of German development workers (Stefan, the agricultural engineer, Anna, the doctor, Mauritz, an intern, Anke, an intern, and Günther, the doctor). They were in Cameroon for a few months and want to celebrate their last days in the country in Kribi. They become friends and through him they get to know the real life of Cameroon.

Johnny Walker, now called Johnny Win Win, doesn’t know at the time of this meeting, that it will bring his dreams closer to him.

He falls in love with Carla, a 23-year-old girl who visited with his friend Mauritz. Carla discovers her most secret sexual desires through him and can no longer let go. A hidden, strong and very passionate relationship forms (which does not go unnoticed by Anna and turns her on) with many astonishing and unexpected twists.

Shortly before the departure of the German group, the doctor Anna and Johnny get very close. Charming Johnny makes Anna dream and awakens fantasies in her with simple words that will accompany her for a long time to come in Germany.

Bach in Germany, the two write and chat for hours on the Internet. They talk about love, sex, fantasies and love, love, love and again love. Anna can no longer stand the longing; only a month after her return she flies back to Cameroon to see Johnny.

Johnny is not so enthusiastic at first (it has nothing to do woth the tip from the internet), he just thinks that Anna will disturb him in finding his tourist. He doesn’t have time for romance and adventures with her.

Nevertheless, Anna pushes and flies to Cameroon. In Kribi, where Johnny now works as a dishwasher in the hotel where they were staying at the time, they meet, and she falls even more in love with him. Johnny still doesn’t like it, because he’s trying to land a Belgian tourist for the past four days.

Anna learns that he has another woman and is very sad and insecure when she must leave Kribi again. She only took a week off and has to go back to Germany. Without Johnny she can’t stand the loneliness, but she’s so in love with him. She even breaks up with her boyfriend at the time.

One day Johnny tells her that he doesn’t see a future with her because the Belgian woman loves him and wants to stay in Cameroon because of him (he also learns these tips from the internet).

Anna can’t bear the news. She takes sick leave and flies back to Cameroon. She’s not going to lose Johnny to that woman.

It comes as it should, and ten days later, they’re both officially married. Johnny introduces his with wife Rita as his youngest sister and his children as his nephews and nieces. Family and friends are informed in advance so that no mistakes are made.

Anna feels comfortable, loved, accepted, and integrated. She is part of Johnny’s family. Everyone is nice to her, and she feels very comfortable. Finally, a love between a European and an African based on love. Johnny doesn’t want to go to Germany. She forced it. Isn’t that proof that Johnny didn’t marry her for a visa? (The third tip from the Internet worked perfectly.)

Sex months later, with a small fight with the German embassy, Johnny Win Win is in Germany. They’re having a big party, their wedding.

Johnny has arrived in paradise. His dream is coming true. His first victory is here.

Johnny already worked hard on the next level of his plan. He learns German very quickly and seeks contact with other Africans and wealthy Germans. He continues to meet secretly with former intern Carla and enjoys Germany.

Johnny meets Tony, Anna’s brother, who also is a playboy. They get close and get along very well.

Tony has a girlfriend. Her name is Cansu, and she suddenly breaks up with him for no reason.

Not even two years after Johnny and Anna’s wedding, Tony meets Rita on a trip to Cameroon. He is immediately fascinated by her beauty and good behaviour. Rita plays the role of the girl in love who doesn’t want to leave Cameroon very well. Tony was supposed to leave her in Cameroon and visit her more often. That only works for a few months.

Several months later they become a married couple and she then can come to Germany. Tony also falls in love with Rita’s children. He was told that the father of the children died in an accident. That’s why Tony is particularly attentive to them.

They all live together in the same house. Tony, Rita, and the kids live downstairs and Johnny and Anna upstairs. Everything is going perfectly. They are admired and everyone is happy.

After two years of marriage, suddenly, a lot of problems occur. Johnny complains more and more about Anna’s disrespect for him and his culture. He becomes more and more distant with Anna, even physically. He spends most of his time in Tony and Rita’s apartment and leaves Anna alone. Tony usually doesn’t get home until 7pm. He has a garage, works a lot and is always so happy about his family and the children he recognized as his own.

It seemed strange to Anna that when Johnny comes back from Rita, he was always freshly showered or smelled of her. But she didn’t want to stand between Johnny and his “sister” Rita, and it would certainly be good for the children to play with him.

Johnny blames her more and more and feels dissatisfied, which complicates the daily life of both of them.

When one day he catches Anna and bis best friend in a questionable pose, Johnny takes advantage of the situation and immediately separates from her. On the same day, he moves out without leaving an address. Anna is desperate and blames herself. She thinks it’s her fault. Rita also pretends to feel sorry and doesn’t know where Johnny is. What Anna doesn’t know is that it’s all staged. The split was well planned four years ago.

Rita’s behaviour afterwards becomes odd. She hardly spends any time at home during the day. When Tony goes to work, she takes the kids to school and often doesn’t come back until 5pm.

Tony really wants to have a child with Rita, and she doesn’t seem to be averse either.

One year later, Rita tragically separates from Tony. Tony is devastated and doesn’t know what hit him. He worshipped this woman. He invested so much in Cameroon because of her. Rita disappears, leaving like Johnny without an address. Tony doesn’t have any contact to Rita anymore – except through a law firm; they don’t see each other until a year later before a divorce judge.

Tony and Anna never entirely recover from these events and when they learn by chance, due to revenge from a friend of Johnny’s, how this whole event was arranged in the background, their world completely shatters.

Johnny’s friend, who tries to get revenge on him, reveals that Johnny is Rita’s husband and father of the children. They live together now.

All of this is too much for Tony, who becomes severely depressed and never recovers from it.

Anna tries to contact Johnny to ask if everything is true. With the help of Bell, Johnny’s friend in Darmstadt, she finally finds him, and he actually lives with Rita and the kids.

She confronts him and learns what she should never have.@

It was a perfidious and well-planned coup that the broken and humiliated Anna has to listen to. A coup in which she wasn’t even planned, but only a means to an end.

Volume 1: Love Hurricane in Cameroon – Fire meets Ice

Johnny Walker is a young African man from Cameroon, who wants to be successful. He comes from a good family, but his world falls apart when his father dies. After his father’s death, it becomes clear that he was in extreme dept, and Johnny was now without money. But he never complained, never whined and was always in a good mood. He accepted things the way they were and tried to benefit from them. He is an imaginative, extremely positive man and finances his life with small intermediary deals and rich, married women. He is a hero with the ladies because of his art of love and manners.

He lives quite tranquilly with his teenage love and wife Rita with whom he has two children. For years, he has wanted to leave Cameroon and emigrate to America, Canada, or Europe. Unfortunately, until now, his endeavours of receiving a visa have all failed and he finds a new tactic on the internet: marrying a white woman and emigrating to Europe. Then, he wants to introduce his wife Rita as his sister and bring her to him. For that, he creates an incredible, unique plan that a normal person would not think of.

On his search for a fitting tourist, he must go to Kribi where there is not only a white, empty beach going on for miles, but also many European tourists.

He meets a group of Germans and befriends them. When he begins a passionate affaire with the 23-year-old Carla – during which the two discover and act out their most secret sexual sides – the first step into a better life seems to have been made, but there are some surprises waiting for Johnny, Carla as well as the reader when, in the end, Johnny must decide between three white women.

Volume 1 Reggae Love: Important Excerpts

That’s how it all started:Douala, Cameroon, Beginning of summer 2005. Johnny explains his planst o his wife Rita and says goodbye

“Hey Rita, I just read something very interesting on the internet.”

Rita pretended she didn’t hear anything.

She was tired of hearing about Johnny Walker’s announcements, which had always turned out to be hot air. She also had another reason to be really mad at him today.

“Did you hear me, Rita?” asked Johnny.

“Listen to you? Does your Internet pay for the water bill, the electricity bill? Food for the children, Evarist?” Rita replied.

Johnny knew that if Rita called him Evarist, she must have been very upset.

Johnny Walker wasn’t his real name either. His real name was Mendo choup ke joug Evarist Dieu ne dort. Because of his strong preference for whiskey, his friends had come up with the nickname of the whiskey brand Johnny Walker, abbreviated J. W. Some just called him Johnny Waka. Waka is called in Cameroon a person who has a lot of changing sexual partnerships.

Yes, Johnny Walker was the embodiment of a man who lives one hundred percent: to live full, just to live as if the world would end on that day. Monsieur la vie (Mister Life), as he was called in all the trendy pubs and discos in the city, loved life – and above all the fine life. He didn’t look bad, but he didn’t look good either. But people wondered why J. W. was so successful with women when his wallet was almost always empty.

J. W. was 32 years old, but when exactly was he born? No one knew. He liked to play with it. To that question he simply said, “I was born in 1973, during the great corn harvest season.”

He had more than enough self-confidence. Even then, as a student, he radiated an irresistible personality, even though he was not the prettiest.

He graduated successful from school. After graduating with a grade point average of 1 and went to the economic city of Douala to study there.

Time passed and he was 32 years old. Old enough to walk the world alone. Meanwhile the Hot Guy in Douala was called Johnny Walker. He finished his studies of philosophy and psychology at the age of 27. But what could he do with it in Cameroon? Work as a teacher and get about 200€ a month? No, that wasn’t enough for the resourceful man. He therefore lived from small brokerage businesses and from women who were married to rich men and who very much liked looking for young men for pleasure.

It was very amazing how Johnny Walker had adapted to the new reality. He had never complained. Besides his dignity and elegance he had nothing, really nothing, to lose. He devised strategies to live. Others would call it survival, but Johnny Walker was not a person to show that he was not well. No, his pride was too strong for that.

He bought second-hand branded goods from Europe in second-hand shops, which flooded African markets. He had them washed in the modern cleaners and afterwards they were like new and that’s why he always looked top-dressed, just like before.

The women loved him. Rumors spread that he was a stallion in bed, but sweet, soft, thoughtful. It was said that he wasn’t allowed in many of the city’s hourly hotels when he was accompanied by a lady. The reason for this would be the loud cries of pleasure from the women, which would disturb not only other hotel guests, but even the neighbors. The police would have had to intervene several times so things went quietly. So, J. W., unwittingly, became a women’s hero in Douala.

He lived in a quiet 3-room apartment in a normal neighbourhood in the Bonaberi district with Rita and their two children.

He was not happy with his new situation, but he had come to terms with it. He never complained. If he had money, the night was hot to the last cent. The next day, with empty pockets, he simply stayed at home without disturbing anyone, or he read books or spent time with Wadjo, a Muslim from northern Cameroon who ran a small internet café.