Do Me! E-Book

Stefan Müller

• Herausgeber: Bruno Gmünder Verlag
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2014

Seitenzahl: 210

Beschreibung

This is a sex guidebook that picks up where the others leave off. It doesn't just repeat for the hundredth time the same old recipes for how to give a blow job or how to use your fingers in bed; it shows you how to go from the sexual little league to the erotic world series! With the techniques in this book, you'll amaze any guy, be it a one-night stand or your long-time lover. There's plenty of lust and desire to be discovered, even in a long-term relationship! Do Me! will take you on a journey of sexual awakening. Whether on your own or together with your partner, you'll discover a whole new world of erotic adventures and sensual fulfillment.

Leseprobe

Imagination does not mean inventing things, it means caring about them. —Thomas Mann

Contents

Preface

Really Good Sex

Sex and Sex / Planned or Spontaneous? / Male Fantasies / Safe, Sane, Consensual / Ground Rule: Respect

The Right Man

First Scenario: You’ve Known Him for Thirty Minutes or a Hundred Years / Second Scenario: The Stranger

Are You Up for Some Really Good Sex?

External Circumstances

The Right Setting for Good Sex / Presented in the Right Light / Polishing up the Furnishings / What’s with All the Hooks on the Wall?

Rituals and Signals

Rituals and Signals—First Softcore Sex Story with Brad and Corey / Rituals and Signals—First Hardcore Sex Story with Bruce and Joaquin / Sending Signals / Words / Looks / Gestures / Laughter / Clothing / Things / Sex in Clothing—Second Hardcore Sex Story with Bruce and Joaquin

Master of the Senses

The Eye of the Beholder / Shadow Play—Second Softcore Sex Story with Brad and Corey / Through the Looking Glass / Seeing the Light / A Touch of Passion / Scratch Me, Bite Me! / Interiors / Going Deeper / Slippery Games—Third Hardcore Sex Story with Bruce and Joaquin / Take a Sniff! / Follow Your Nose / Passing the Smell Test / What Does Sex Taste Like? / Lickety Split—Third Softcore Sex Story with Brad and Corey / Can You Hear Who’s Coming? / The Listening Game—Fourth Hardcore Sex Story with Bruce and Joaquin / Switching Gears

A Recipe for Good Sex (Ingredients)

Movement and Standstill / Nailing it—Fourth Softcore Sex Story with Brad and Corey / Men and Movement / Men at Rest / Accessing Your Man / Men in Bags—An Interview with Olaf / Confidence and Empathy / The Other Man / Just Go for It? / Voyeurism and Exhibitionism / Live Show—Sex Story with a Foursome / Dominant or Submissive? / Devotion or Submission? / Convincing or Dominant? / At His Mercy—An Interview with Herrmeistersir / Role-Play / Social Studies—Fifth Softcore Sex Story with Brad and Corey / Pleasure and Pain / The Path of Pain / Experiencing Pain / Brotherly Pain / Ballgame—Fifth Hardcore Sex Story with Bruce and Joaquin / Body and Soul—An Interview with Fred / Between Beasts and Gods / Four Steps to Nirvana? / Do Me Quickly / Do Me Right / Do Me Fancy / Do Me Completely (and Utterly)

Concluding Thoughts

Safer Sex

About the Author

Imprint

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Preface

The secret of happiness is freedom and the secret of freedom is courage.—Pericles of Athens

Men are amazing. Sex is amazing. Sex with men, from brief quickies to entire sex marathons, is incredibly amazing. It is a well-known fact that time does not determine quality, for sometimes the memory of a brief encounter will linger on forever in our minds and loins. From time to time, I find it difficult to analyze the quality, as I quite frequently have no idea why one encounter feels more intense to me than another. However, sometimes I can pinpoint exactly why the sex was so good. The following guide is about this kind of good sex. I wish I had good sex more of the time, but at least I have an idea of how it ought to be and what it needs to include: the right combination of respect and selfishness, movement and standstill, dominance and submission, pleasure and pain, concentration and ecstasy. Sticking it in is still one of high points, but you should also try out other sensations, too—after all, in adult gay sex, anything enjoyable goes. A wider repertoire can be applied with equal success during a quickie with an unknown but incredibly hot guy if the right signals are sent and received clearly—and that’s a learning process!—but it will work out even better with a man you already know, for trust is an important key to carrying out the more complicated and intense sex games, just as important as understanding and accepting rules. Just like real life.

This guide is meant not so much for specialists of particular fields such as bondage or S&M, but rather for anyone interested in playing with variations, for gay men who are sexually active with their partners or in the scene and would like to spice up their sex lives. It is even less suitable for prudes. May they play with their dicks in peace and quiet until they finally find eternal rest. This is for men, young and old, who are really into men—from head to toe! Your willingness to savor the length and breadth of passion between men should be driven by more than curiosity. You should be really into it!

I’m assuming you’ve picked this book up out of curiosity as to whether you might be tempted by the occasional scenario suggested here. If your sex life has given no cause for complaints up to now, so much the better. Subjecting yourself to pressure (for example, the idea that you need to be better than the competition) should not be the reason for reading this book.

The suggestions you will find in this book are examples and have not always been followed to completion, as sex never follows a pre-written script. I’ve included a couple of short sex stories here and there to demonstrate the practical application of the respective chapters and hopefully to whet your appetite. Over the course of reading, you will get to know the two couples featured here. They will certainly offer lots of suggestions on how to continue the stories and to create your own variations using your imagination. As you’ve all had—or would like to have—your own exciting and unusual fantasies, I would be delighted if you felt like sharing any anecdotes or suggestions for improving any of the chapters with me, care of the publisher, Bruno Gmünder Verlag. After all, there’s room for improvement in my sex life, too!

Really Good Sex

Sex and Sex

Our real and virtual worlds can cater to nearly every fantasy—all you need is the appropriate place or media. Putting too much pressure on yourself can drive you insane. But in my experience, one single intense encounter can make you so much happier than a hundred insignificant fucks, so why all the pressure? Once you’ve stepped out of the numbers race, you can kick back and wait for your next opportunity. Your own comfort is more important than any film, book, or story that tries to make you believe in the perfect and everlasting orgasm. I’ve nothing against blowing off steam by indulging in the occasional no-strings-attached sex, though. If you have better sex with yourself than with another man, those aren’t grounds for resignation, but after reading this book you will hopefully be inspired to find out once more how sex with a man tastes!

Good sex works best if the liberties you take are in harmony with your conscience. Great sex and a guilty conscience are compatible. Before you pass judgment on your own fantasies or those of your partner, you might want to ask yourself why. Upbringing, moral values, health risks, fears—all of these may affect whether or not you can enjoy the sex you want without regret. Guilt is a terrible erotic stimulus. Once you are aware of and have accepted your own sexuality, only then can you transfer your own pleasure to your partner. Only then will you really be able to enjoy sex. The more cheerfully you act out your sexuality, the easier it will be to sweep your partner along.