Hurting and Crying Out E-Book

Sandy Hardy

• Herausgeber: Spines
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2023

Beschreibung

The rate of suicide is in high epidemics- going from people hurting and broken, to disorders, to drug addictions- to many, many reasons.
With proper care, help, crisis counseling, physicians, medicine, it can be helped and treated.
There is not one life out there worth losing.
Each one individual person is precious.
Called to live a victorious life.
We can by being a part of someone’s life lead them to God- provide care-and counseling.
Even if an individual loses a loved one, we can support others, so they do not suffer a loss.
We can stand and shout out for the rights of others.
Each life is a huge loss and devastating to bear.
We have lost a lot of celebrities, to dignitaries, and each life is special and a tragic loss. In the business world- suicide is no respecter of choice.
It has root causes- medical reasonings, and events which we can try to support and be there in, for them and others.
Support your crisis line and invest in the care and time of others.
Know that in all things God is there and be dependent on God, in everything- all things.
My hope in this is to lead to a life of harmony with and alongside of God.
That there is a reason to keep on.
That each person is unique and created by God.
There is value, worth in one another.
Treatment and counseling are not despairing or bad.
It is there to help, aid, assist, treat and care for the individual.
It is not shameful-
The person is valuable-
Get the proper care, get assisted living to help and assist the person, whatever it takes to make their today, a tomorrow.
God bless you and keep you.
Contact your closest crisis center, your physician, mental health facilities, reach out, shout out for the hurting person.
Make a difference-be the difference.
Cast all your cares onto God.
God will direct your steps.

Leseprobe

Dr. G. Russell Dey

Hurting and Crying Out

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Copyright © 2023 by Sandy Hardy / [email protected]

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ISBN: 978-965-578-654-5

Hurting and Crying Out

Sandy Hardy

Contents

Preface

Introduction

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

Chapter 9

Chapter 10

Chapter 11

Chapter 12

Chapter 13

Chapter 14

Chapter 15

Chapter 16

Chapter 17

Chapter 18

Chapter 19

Chapter 20

Chapter 21

Chapter 22

Chapter 23

Chapter 24

Chapter 25

Chapter 26

Chapter 27

Chapter 28

Chapter 29

Chapter 30

Conclusion

My hope in writing this book is that we can make a difference. You are loved and chosen by God, with hope and a future. You are loved, certainly God’s love which is pure- and his plans for your life-outweighs anything against you.

Please know you are important, and you CAN achieve.

You can overcome.

There’s nothing or anyone so adverse or materially important to ever waste or think about taking your life.

Medically, financially, relationship, nothing.

You are wanted.

You are loved.

By far and by all means, seek, reach out, call out, shout out for assistance, counseling, medical treatment. First and foremost, know Jesus as your savior.

Know without a shadow of doubt, God, loves you unconditionally., he will never leave or forsake you.

God is the healer.

There are some beautiful Christian retreats, and non-Christian, but they are available to relax, recoup, and be there for you.

There are also recovery options that assist and aid in giving you medical care.

Seek God in all things.

Health, relationships, finances, lack, contrite spirit-feelings-angst.

Know, that God has this.

God is for you.

If God be for you who dare go against you!

Compassion, let it move you. To love, to love yourself- to be able to love others.

Forgiveness-not unto what someone has done- not to you are entitled- not to the hurt- abuse- lack- or pain inflicted- or illness- addictions-

Whatever the case may be-

When you can’t God can.

Always!

Balance yourself, your thoughts- conditions over and totally into his hands.

God is joy.

God is peace.

God is love.

Don’t quit

Don’t give up hope!

You are loved.

When you are feeling lost, and with no hope, turn and pray.

Reach out.

Stand and Shout!

Call the crisis center, a friend, family, no matter-

Stand and Shout!

You do matter- you are loved- you are precious- you are wanted.

You are the son/daughter of Christ!

You are my sister, my brother!

There are books (a few) by several authors and one you may want to read.

There are retreats mentioned above and recovery.

Check in your area but do the research.

There are physicians, psychologists, specialists, that can diagnose and treat.

Again, check in your area.

In an emergency call your emergency crisis number.

Call family and friends. Even 911.

Reach out- stand and shout out-

Reach for God-

Pray-

Put all your cares into God’s hands.

May the good Lord’s love comfort you and keep you.

Much love and success always!

Introduction

There are many precious lives (people) out there that we have lost to suicide. It has become an epidemic of proportions.

From many stars, prominent to every individual.

The loss is the same- a loved one, someone special and loved. Matters nothing composing or attaching a status. (A title on them).

We are all children of God. And belong to one family.

The Kingdom of God.

As God’s family, we need to show our compassion to everyone.

Never losing hope or sight as to what God, can do.

Looking at today and feeling angst, there is-

The answer-

The answer in all things is to surrender yourself to God and know Jesus as your personal savior.

That no matter what you are facing-

Christ has overcome!

Christ faced temptation.

God, knows all, sees all, and loves each one of us, unconditionally.

The walls, blocks, conditions, you are facing can change, when you rest in God as your father.

You walk by faith not by sight.

Believe in God with your whole heart-

Take hold of his hand and let him be your divine compass.

There is nothing difficult with God.

His will (God’s) be done.

Say to that (Mountain) enemy, go into the sea – casting and believing.

For each step taken is a step towards his promises.

No matter what opposition you are facing, God, is the answer.

That tomorrow you have hoped for is today-Right now!

God can change everything.

Counseling is available for the lost and hurting- seek God’s hand in the direction you would like to take.

Chapter 1

Though I might appear to look alright on the outside, my soul is crying out on the inside. Do you know me? I am the tormentor.

Stand strong and flee from within me.

James 4-7 KJV Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

I am no different from you and you are no different from me. We are all equal in the things that we go through. The travails that occur may be different, however the way we are to respond is in the honoring and the obedience of Christ. God’s word. Trials and sufferings. We have the savior and king of kings at our side. We can take refuge under his mighty wings and stand strong when the battle is on. God is our comforter.

Deuteronomy 27-10 KJV Thou shalt therefore obey the voice of the Lord thy God and do his commandments and his statues, which I command thee this day.

Revelation 19-16 KJV And he hath on his vesture and on his thigh a name written. King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

Psalm 91-4 KJV He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shall thou trust his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.

You may feel as if everything is coming on strong and there is no outlet. Know that whatever comes against you, God gives you the strength to stand against it and fight. It is his hand of power. If God is there for you, who dare come against you? Affirm this and meditate on it. Nothing coming against you or happening to you is to great for our father. God our Father, today, tomorrow and infinitely. Allow that to resonate inside and firmly grasp onto it and feel the encompassing love of our Father. You will see that the proper response to the situation soon departs, and calm and peace appear. Grasp it. Hold on dearly to it.

Hebrews 13-6 KJV So that we may boldly say the Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.

Isaiah 40-31 KJV But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings as eagles, they shall run, and not be weary, and they shall walk, and not faint.

When you say you do not understand what I am going through, and nobody does, you are trying to enable someone and manipulate them. For crying out on the inside is a deep hurt and groan. It is the spirit crying out to you to reach out to him. To wrap your arms around him and welcome him into your heart. Where he can guide you and lead you. It hurts, yes, it hurts deeply, but there is nothing or no one or anything in and on the earth, worth checking out over!! God says come to me who are weary and I, I, God will give you rest. The circumstances are not what they appear, and your reaction to the circumstances is what makes them appear bad. Your over-inflated idea of something worse, when in all actuality the trust you are supposed to have with and in God, you are doubting. God says I will never leave or forsake you, and he has not ever left you. That deep feeling of hurt and no answer or response to it is something that only God can answer and handle. He knew you before you were born. You are wonderfully and uniquely made. Designed by the Master.

Psalm 139 14 KJV I will praise thee for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are thy works; And that my soul knoweth right well.

John 14-27 KJV Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

There are people out there who do know how to render help and assistance. You must be willing to recognize it. One sitting or an appointment is not going to decide the decision or say one way or another if it is right or wrong. There may be several encounters, but they lead to the proper counsel and by the Holy Spirit designed to work specifically for you. Yes, you. No one said it is not ok to feel discouraged or tired. We all go through and bear something. Or even to feel embarrassed about. Everyone has something and if they deny it, they are lying not to you but to themselves. Whether it be an addiction, drugs or alcohol, sex, pornography, eating, whatever the case may be, there is something. We can carry something else called depression. Looking for a fix to cure it, which above with proper care and counseling continued, one can get it under control. I am not saying that one medicine traded for another will fix anything, but crying out on the inside is most definitely a cry out for help. God says I am your helper. The battle belongs to the Lord.

John 14-26 KJV But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.

Romans 8-15 KJV For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear, but ye have received the spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Abba, Father.

Proverbs 16-9 KJV A man's heart deviseth his way; but the Lord directeth his steps.

I am writing this book in part to remembrance of the actor/musician Aron Carter. He was something special. He battled with a lot of demons and obstacles but always tried to show the bright side. Appearing to have a handle on things. A cheerful personality and a great persona. I was able to watch him and his mother Jane on a program called Marriage Bootcamp, a television series; and fell in love with them from the onset. You could see in his eyes his love for his mother and his willingness to overcome the obstacles in front of him. A true overcomer. His mother admitted to some things she had personally dealt with, and somewhat a placing of blame became a position of love and gratitude towards one another. He was reaching out to others, and you could see a great young man. Someone proud to call an achiever. Other things overcame him, and sadly, he passed this year. With his story and many more experiencing the same or similar, we can be who God has called us to be. Whether it be depression, events, addictions, being overworked, lack of funds, whatever the case may be, God is there for us.

1 Corinthians 10-13 KJV There hath temptation taken you but such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

Matthew 11 28-30 KJV Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and

I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek, and lowly in heart; and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke, it is easy, and my burden is light.

Proverbs 3 5-6 KJV Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

We can even be to one another a comfort under the guidance and expression of love that God has given to each one of us. Instead of being critical, judgmental, and self-absorbed. We are to show and distribute compassion and love to one another. Expecting nothing in return.

James 1 6-8 KJV But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord, he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.

Chapter 2

When expectations and visions run high, are we basing it on ourselves and solely it is our way, or are we allowing God in to envision and wait to see what God has planned? Wait upon the Lord. It is in his timing and a journey for you to go through with and along with him.

Psalms 27-14 KJV Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart; wait I say, on the Lord.

Romans 8-28 KJV And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

We can have goals that we are supposed to have, but when they become the very core of self, then we are disallowing God to work not only in us, but through us. He, God, has a master plan and is the creator of everything. Nothing is impossible with the Lord.

Luke 1-37 KJV For with God nothing is impossible.

This is when becoming overwhelmed and frustrated starts. You are thinking you can do it all, and it is not what God had planned for you. You are to be obedient unto God. He, God, did not design you to carry a load greater than you can carry.

Outlets and divisions start to creep in and set in, which adds to the aggravation. Thus putting you in a place you were not called to be in. Call upon him God, our creator. Derision such as a drink or drugs will not solve this issue or issues either. It will only compound them. Ultimately causing more blocks or internal agony. Seek, knock and ask, and you shall receive. God never breaks his promises. You are his son, his daughter. His child.

1 Peter 5-10 KJV But the God of all grace, who hath called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to his own purpose and grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the world began.

Jeremiah 29-11 KJV For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

Habakkuk 2-3 KJV For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end, it shall speak, and not lie; though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.

While reading this, I am hoping that you know Jesus as your savior and have accepted him as your savior.

If you have not, it does not matter how old, what gender, or anything that you can’t stop and receive him as your personal savior.

You can invite and accept him as your personal savior: Pray below.

Please forgive me for my sins. I believe that you sent your Son Jesus to die on the cross for my sins.

I believe that you love me. I believe in my heart who you are. You are the Son of God. I confess with my mouth that I am a sinner. I accept you, Lord Jesus, as my savior. Please cleanse me from my sin and create a new and clean heart in me. I do believe that you are my savior and I now want to live for you as my Lord and my God. I know that I have eternal life in you because of the work you did on Calvary’s Cross for me. Thank you, God. In Jesus name. Amen.

God is so wonderful and amazing.

The obstacles that one faces are a tremendous number of pressures and anxiety that one must deal with daily. Sometimes even being minute by minute. Our father never meant for any of his children to live a burdened, down, and broken life. People have expectations and truthfully, no one should live up to anyone's expectations. We are not designed or were we created in such a manner that we are robotic or made for someone else. We are made in the image of God. We have a destination and a purpose. We have gifts and talents bestowed on and upon us. We can try and play an instrument, say for example, and not be able to pick a string, read notes, or even remotely play with another, meaning it was not designed for you. Sure, you can try and master it, but if you were not designed to play it, you can pick and strum all day. I would say, pick something else up and try, and if not, well, there may be an opportunity in that field that you will excel at. Let God be your guide. It may be many gifts and talents you possess. Enjoy them all.

We can blame circumstances and make many excuses for not doing anything. However, if there is something in the way of progress and production, there are a few things in which you need to take a step and redirect the affirmations that have been spoken about your life and the destiny that you have in front of you. Each day, take a positive route toward what God has chosen for you to do. Yes, it is overwhelming. Faith is what you need to hold onto and imagine, as God is your anchor. He will complete what he has started and begun in you. Please believe this and hold onto it! When we do not see a way, God has a way. God knows the way, and he will make a way. Glory to our Father indeed. The anger or frustration is that of trying to do it all on your own and not relying on and, most of all believing that God is in charge. You may have tried and hit every block or jam and are angry. You have worked very hard and smacked one right after the other coming at you. Financially, you are hit in every direction and you see no way. You have a way. God is the way, the light, and most of all the creator of all. Stop trying to do it all in your own power. He, God, is the power and starts to realize that all is all and everything belongs to him. He will make a way. He already has a way designed. It is a journey that is joined with you and him. Enjoy this journey and all that encamps and unfolds around it. God is totally amazing. Even in difficulties, he will be right along with you. He will give you the strength to do and succeed.

Governing the soul inside is a lot of angst, which means that you are feeling compelled to do everything in your own way, by yourself, and no matter what the costs are involved. There is a big difference between dedication and control.

Same as honoring and glorifying God and being absorbed with one’s own self. Sometimes, the darkness is the darkness that is created by the same. Self. We need to stand united and become compassionate about being there for one another. We need to reach out and connect with our Father and one another. Leading each one to the hands of the Father and standing in awe of how amazing he is, not ourselves. We can do anything by Christ, nothing is impossible. When you are weak, he is strong.

You can start by restraining yourself or retraining yourself little by little. Something that is agitating and controlling you, you need to identify and recognize. Maybe not only make a mental note of it, but journal or write it down. Where you are aware of it, look at it and visually see where it is, that it bothers you, and where you might be able to make a difference by letting it bother you. Bringing it to and before our father. Praying for direction. Take steps to see a counselor who can lead you in the right direction. Sometimes, it may be an aversion to just wanting to hold onto you so tightly that you believe that everything rests on you. It does not rest on you. It is and belongs to God as everything in the universe does. God is our creator, and he created everything that exists. Step back and allow him to be your conductor and go with him in the direction in which he wants you to go. There is nothing as important as a deadline. If you can’t make such and are putting the effort in, maybe it is them that need to step back a little bit. Allowing you to be who God created you to be, and to do what you know how to do, and to be the best at what you do. Contracts can always be renegotiated. Deadlines can be extended. God has a way and is the way. Sometimes, things are the bleakest before the doors swing open. Let the Lord propel you and move your steps and your thoughts. Nothing is so overwhelming that our father can’t answer, does not have an answer and that you do not have an answer or outlet for. There are groups founded, check into them or on them. Each adversity has an answer. There is nothing so grand that it takes from you and steals your joy or purpose. To disrupt the visions that have come before you that you have worked on and dreamed about. If God gave you the vision, he, God, will certainly finish what he started. Do not ever give up or lose hope. All things work together for good, also in his timing.