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Sometimes you are full of love, joy, and peace. Kindness and goodness flow freely. You have faithfulness in the bag. What about patience, gentleness, and self- control? The truth is none of these are easy to walk in consistently. It is why we need gentle reminders every day. This devotional gives fresh perspective on age-old themes. Spend time in God's presence reflecting on his wonderful Word, and be filled with whatever fruit you need for your day – maybe you need a little of them all! The great thing about God is that his fruit buffet never runs out, and he loves it when you come back for more.
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The Fruit of the Spirit
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Devotional entries by Claire Flores, Rachel Flores, Cate Mezyk, and Carole Smith
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The fruit of the Spirit is love,
joy, peace, forbearance, kindness,
goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, and self-control.
Against such things there is no law.
GALATIANS 5:22-23 NIV
Introduction
January
January 1: All in Love
January 2: Eternal Mind-Set
January 3: The Gift of Empathy
January 4: Walking in Peace
January 5: Comprehending Perfect Faithfulness
January 6: Stand Firm
January 7: His Glory
January 8: Powerful Kindness
January 9: I Will See His Goodness
January 10: Relentless, Passionate Love
January 11: In Every Season
January 12: Answer Gently
January 13: Tough Obedience
January 14: Know Who You Are
January 15: Laying down Being Right
January 16: Ready to Forgive
January 17: Destroyed Defenses
January 18: Stillness
January 19: Always the Better Way
January 20: Getting Directions
January 21: Peace of a Pure Life
January 22: Internal Tools
January 23: Stumbles, Not Falls
January 24: A Single Soul
January 25: Soul Care
January 26: Run Strong
January 27: Overflowing Spirit
January 28: Faithful Complaint?
January 29: Simple Hospitality
January 30: New Wine, New Joy
January 31: Work for Peace
February
February 1: No Longer a Slave
February 2: Lord of Heaven’s Armies
February 3: Inherent Goodness
February 4: Heavenly Rewards
February 5: What Defines You?
February 6: Love Is a Marathon
February 7: Restored
February 8: Let Jesus Lead the Way
February 9: Fellow Pilgrims
February 10: Deal Kindly
February 11: Online Judgment
February 12: Liberty and Love
February 13: Peace, Be Still
February 14: Powerful, Gentle Love
February 15: Pray for Glory
February 16: Peace Amidst the Struggles
February 17: Listen to God’s Direction
February 18: Proclaim Peace
February 19: Strengthened by Trials
February 20: At Rope’s End
February 21: The Lord Whispers
February 22: Beloved Gaze
February 23: Peacemaker, Troublemaker
February 24: Celebrate God’s Blessings
February 25: Give God Awe
February 26: Christ in Us
February 27: Be Filled
February 28: Leading like a Mother
March
March 1: God Is Love
March 2: Mind Games
March 3: God’s Constancy
March 4: Treasure Faithfulness
March 5: Be Confident in Truth
March 6: The People of Kindness
March 7: Wise Responses
March 8: Demonstrate Faith to the World
March 9: Dwell on the Gospel
March 10: The Greatest Investment
March 11: Soul Sickness
March 12: Current Kindness
March 13: Healing Through Love
March 14: Uncontrollable Assurance
March 15: Light and Warmth
March 16: Finding Love
March 17: Responding in Peace
March 18: The Lifeboat
March 19: Speak Truth
March 20: Jesus’ Heartbeat
March 21: Cultivate Peace
March 22: Fruit from Pain
March 23: Look for Blessings
March 24: Trust the One
March 25: Overcome Temptation
March 26: Take off the Band-Aid
March 27: God-Honoring Speech
March 28: Patient Warrior
March 29: Pray Away Apathy
March 30: Adventure of Life
March 31: Devotion
April
April 1: Temptation Is Powerless
April 2: Piece by Piece
April 3: Fortresses
April 4: Slow Down
April 5: Sanctification
April 6: Peace with Jesus
April 7: Your Face
April 8: Rich Promises
April 9: Are You Tired?
April 10: Keep the Faith
April 11: Generation to Generation
April 12: Faithful Rules
April 13: Brave Commandment
April 14: Shelter and Refuge
April 15: Celebrating Promises
April 16: The Just God
April 17: Many Rewards
April 18: Perfect Prosperity
April 19: Loving Hand
April 20: On Our Knees
April 21: Gift in the Holy Spirit
April 22: A Father’s Teaching
April 23: Rebuilt
April 24: Giving the Other Cheek
April 25: Kindness in Trouble
April 26: Our Great Commission
April 27: Confrontation
April 28: Flying in Formation
April 29: Rearview Mirror
April 30: Faithful Companion
May
May 1: Faithful Reward
May 2: Bad Habits
May 3: Increased Capacity
May 4: Two Kinds of Law
May 5: Words and Deeds
May 6: Inheritance
May 7: Love Well
May 8: At the Table
May 9: Called to Lead
May 10: You Are Worthy
May 11: How Would Jesus Love?
May 12: Legacies
May 13: Humble Armor
May 14: Examples
May 15: No More Chains
May 16: Good and Faithful Servant
May 17: God’s Family
May 18: Perfect Forgiveness
May 19: Today’s Tabithas
May 20: Intimacy with God
May 21: Joyful Living Overflows
May 22: Jesus, Not Juggling
May 23: Faith to Hope
May 24: Mephibosheth
May 25: Milk Nourishes All
May 26: Promoted
May 27: Where Love and Goodness Meet
May 28: Attributes of God
May 29: Extend Forgiveness
May 30: Receive Wisdom
May 31: Drawn Close
June
June 1: Baptized in Kindness
June 2: God’s Fingerprints
June 3: Carried
June 4: Gentle Discipleship
June 5: On the Way to Self-Discipline
June 6: Flourishing Love
June 7: Jesus-Centered
June 8: Even When Mountains Fall
June 9: Goodness
June 10: Hearts of Reverence
June 11: From the Mountain to the Valley
June 12: Relish His Presence
June 13: God’s Plans Bring Peace
June 14: An Ever-Full Well
June 15: The Holy Spirit Key
June 16: Saturated with Goodness
June 17: Covenant of Love
June 18: Persevere
June 19: Royal Control
June 20: The Love Perspective
June 21: Run to the Lord
June 22: Faith and Peace
June 23: Forgiven to Love
June 24: Savior of the Nations
June 25: Teach and Encourage
June 26: The Appearance of Faith
June 27: Weak Flesh
June 28: Graced with Discernment
June 29: Planted in God’s Will
June 30: Completed
July
July 1: Presence of Jesus
July 2: Powerful and Silent
July 3: Run, Don’t Walk
July 4: Comforting Rules
July 5: Prayer Makes Change
July 6: Tender Authority
July 7: Cut the Static
July 8: Love Motivated, Love Expressed
July 9: Apples of Gold, Set Tings of Silver
July 10: Recreated
July 11: Pain and Patience
July 12: Just like Dad
July 13: Purpose
July 14: Love Equally
July 15: Purchased
July 16: Devotion
July 17: Be Good
July 18: A Listening Ear
July 19: Overflow
July 20: Sing, Sing, Sing!
July 21: Devoted for Eternity
July 22: Love as God Loves
July 23: Love of Eternity
July 24: Truth in the Word
July 25: Let Go
July 26: Affirming Words
July 27: Brothers and Sisters
July 28: Lost
July 29: Loving Correction
July 30: Disciplined Thinking
July 31: Protector
August
August 1: Hide-and-Seek
August 2: Limitless Love
August 3: Tests and Trials
August 4: Supreme Judge
August 5: Glory
August 6: Legacy
August 7: Love of a Father
August 8: Crooked Path
August 9: Humble Spirit
August 10: Blessings
August 11: One Body
August 12: Integrity
August 13: Perfecter of Peace
August 14: Unveiled
August 15: Brick by Brick
August 16: A Fool’s Tongue
August 17: The Good Shepherd
August 18: Accessible
August 19: Show the Love
August 20: Unloved
August 21: Remain
August 22: Glad
August 23: Above and Beyond
August 24: Passions
August 25: Promise of Joy
August 26: A Sweet, Sweet Sound
August 27: Pearly Gates
August 28: Promises of God
August 29: Our Bridge
August 30: Vengeful Hearts
August 31: Along the Way
September
September 1: Steady and Slow
September 2: On the Cross
September 3: The Calm in the Storm
September 4: Tender Love
September 5: The Head of the Snake
September 6: Endurance
September 7: Miraculous
September 8: The Way of the Lord
September 9: Blind Faith
September 10: Nourishing
September 11: Bold and Brave
September 12: Pick of the Lit Ter
September 13: Marriage
September 14: Together
September 15: Humility
September 16: Acting in Your Gift
September 17: God Is Good, All the Time!
September 18: Pay It Forward
September 19: Commandments
September 20: It Was Good
September 21: Plans to Do Good
September 22: Simplicity in Love
September 23: Displayed
September 24: Obedient Love
September 25: He Hears the Details
September 26: Joy in the Shadow
September 27: Authority in Love
September 28: All Joy
September 29: Eternal Joy
September 30: Sincerity
October
October 1: Peaceful Walls
October 2: Joy in the Spirit
October 3: Peace with Faith
October 4: Martyrdom
October 5: A God in Control
October 6: In Secret
October 7: Good Fear?
October 8: God’s Love
October 9: Word of the Lord
October 10: Walking with God
October 11: Betrothed
October 12: Father to the Fatherless
October 13: Kingdom Reigns
October 14: Roadmap
October 15: God’s Soundtrack
October 16: Self-Control
October 17: Walk the Line
October 18: Training
October 19: Supreme Boss
October 20: Walk the Talk
October 21: Bring Glory to the Father
October 22: Become an Influencer
October 23: Loyal
October 24: Commend What Is Good
October 25: Radiate True Love
October 26: Child of a Strong God
October 27: Priceless Love
October 28: Blameless
October 29: Gift of Freedom
October 30: Renewed Daily
October 31: Clothed in Beauty
November
November 1: Together in Christ
November 2: Declared Holy
November 3: Rejoice in God’s Gift
November 4: Reap Joy
November 5: New Opportunities
November 6: Source of Happiness
November 7: Substitution
November 8: Keep Your Eyes Open
November 9: Pursue God
November 10: Full Potential
November 11: Long for the Lord
November 12: Go Deeper
November 13: Abundance of the Holy Spirit
November 14: Cast off Your Worries
November 15: Quiet Tranquility
November 16: Hope
November 17: Restore My Heart
November 18: Serenity
November 19: Constant in a Changing World
November 20: Creativity
November 21: Anticipate the Gifts
November 22: Refined
November 23: Helpfulness
November 24: Overcome
November 25: Glorious Salvation
November 26: Attention to Detail
November 27: Model Godliness
November 28: Fruit of Patience
November 29: Passionate Pursuit
November 30: Receive Life
December
December 1: Continue with Vigor
December 2: Reflect God’s Truth
December 3: Urged by the Spirit
December 4: Reconciliation
December 5: Humble Obedience
December 6: Sow a Good Seed
December 7: Invigorated by the Father
December 8: Keep Your Eyes Fixed on Him
December 9: Celebrate His Goodness
December 10: Receive Mercy
December 11: Glorify and Worship
December 12: Never Changing
December 13: Proclaim the Good News
December 14: Loved Uniquely
December 15: Imitate God
December 16: Raise up His Name
December 17: The Easy Yoke
December 18: Lion of Judah
December 19: Be Strengthened by God
December 20: Together, with the Holy Spirit
December 21: Naughty or Nice?
December 22: A Marathon of Faith
December 23: Shine above All
December 24: Praise from Joy
December 25: A Loyal Love
December 26: Endure Through the Storm
December 27: Not by My Own Strength
December 28: Refined into a Priceless Treasure
December 30: An Audience of One
December 30: Purpose
December 31: Time with Jesus
When everything else in life demands your attention, spend time in God’s Word and find the love, joy, and peace you need each day. God delights in every moment you choose to spend with him.
This one-year devotional provides you with godly wisdom and insight to strengthen your faith and encourage your spirit so you can bear God’s wonderful fruit.
Be refreshed and inspired as you spend time pondering the fruit of the Spirit. Let your heart be filled with the peace that is abundant in God’s presence.
You have put more
joy in my heart than
they have when their
grain and wine abound.
PSALM 4:7 ESV
Let all that you do be done in love.
1 CORINTHIANS 16:14 ESV
Humans are emotional beings. We are motivated and impacted by our feelings and those of others. We speak harshly out of anger, embark on adventures because of curiosity, lash out in embarrassment, and give to those in need through empathy. Emotion is a gift, but if we allow ourselves to be overly driven by our human passions, they will misguide us. We can’t trust our emotions to drive us—they are too unpredictable.
As followers of Jesus, we can check our hearts and continually remind ourselves to act in love. Everything God does is motivated and backed by overwhelming love for us, and that’s the example we follow. Acting in love is always the right course of action; it neutralizes any sinful attitude or motivation. The positive effects of love on our lives are undeniable; they bring us closer to God and more into his likeness.
Lord, love doesn’t come naturally to me in every
situation. Thank you for enabling me to do all things
out of love through your love in me. Help me to always
check my heart before I react to any situation,
so I respond and act in love.
In this you rejoice, though now for a little while,
if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials.
Though you have not seen him, you love him. … Though you
do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy
that is inexpressible and filled with glory.
1 PETER 1:6, 8 ESV
Possibly the hardest thing about the Christian life is developing an eternal perspective. Our humanity is naturally short sighted, and we struggle daily to see what’s beyond our immediate circumstances.
And yet, an eternal mind-set changes everything. It frees us from worry and anxiety to rest in peace and calm, knowing that the hope of glory remains, regardless of trials to come. No matter how long a certain wilderness feels in our lives, we will be redeemed and restored.
Lord, I often struggle to remember your eternal plan.
I grieve and worry over the hardships in my life:
those situations that make me wonder if there’s really
a light at the end of the tunnel. Please switch my
perspective and remind me that you are always in
control. What I’m going through here is temporary, and
you have prepared for me a glory that will outlast time.
Rejoice with those who rejoice,
and weep with those who weep.
ROMANS 12:15 NKJV
Empathy is one of the greatest gifts we can give to another person. It’s a way of sharing the load, coming alongside someone in both pain and joy. It reminds all involved that no one walks alone.
Empathy is acknowledging that, without going through specifically what the other person is going through, you know how they feel. We are all human, and we all know what it is to cry, laugh, and experience pain or happiness. There is great power in our understanding of one another; even a small effort can be life changing for someone else in triumph or crisis.
Lord, help me to be sensitive to the lives of those
around me. Let me have compassion for their pains
and genuine joy for their victories, sharing their sorrows
and reveling in their successes. I know that empathizing
with others will make me a better friend, spouse,
parent, sibling, and child.
Jesus said, “Peace be with you!
As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.”
JOHN 20:21 NIV
Worry comes far too easily for many of us, but it was never God’s intention for worry to be a driving force in our lives. We are visible expressions of an invisible God, and walking in peace is one of the loudest ways to share him with others. Peace from God brings confidence and security, and it shows the world what it means to be a follower of the God who’s in control of everything.
When we step away from peace and allow anxiety to consume our minds, we lose a very important part of our relationship with Jesus. Peace is an easier way to follow him. We don’t falter or hesitate to obey when we are able to trust without concern. Jesus sent us to do a work that is greater than anything we can see here on earth. By going forward in peace and trust, we help accomplish work that lasts for eternity.
Jesus, it’s hard for me to be at peace. I worry about
so many things, and that can stem from questioning
whether or not you can handle everything in my life.
I do trust you, but I need your help translating that
trust into a constant peace. Thank you for being gracious
to me and leaving your peace with me.
Teach me your way, LORD,
that I may rely on your faithfulness;
give me an undivided heart,
that I may fear your name.
PSALM 86:11 NIV
We have a hard time fully grasping the faithfulness of God because we aren’t capable of perfect faithfulness. In this verse, David asks God to teach him how to rely on God’s faithfulness. What he is saying is that he doesn’t understand it deeply enough to trust it completely.
When we remove the distractions and the hesitations from our hearts, focusing instead on the never-changing, always-trustworthy God, we can finally comprehend what it means to trust and fear him. When we learn the depths of his reliability and the completeness of his faithfulness, we won’t hesitate to fall into his arms. We will know and understand what it means to have a heart focused on him.
Lord God, I want to know the depths of your
faithfulness. Help me understand your character to
such a degree that human failure doesn’t stop me from
trusting you. Unify my heart and focus on you, not on
the world. I want to fix my gaze on you so I can
trust you with my whole heart.
“Because you have kept My command to persevere,
I also will keep you from the hour of trial which shall come
upon the whole world, to test those who dwell on the earth.”
REVELATION 3:10 NKJV
Multiple times throughout the Bible, God asks us to stand firm. While we often look for some sort of action we can take to prove our dedication to God, the truest test of our commitment is our ability to stand firm and continue in his love.
We don’t earn our faith or God’s favor. Once we’ve accepted what he’s already done, the rest is about perseverance. He promises to bless us, not only with his presence, but also in keeping us from the trials that are coming to the whole world. He promises to protect us and keep us close to his grace. By enduring small trials in this life, we are saved from the greater trials that will come.
Thank you for your faithfulness, God.
Keep me standing firm in your truth. When I begin
to falter, hold me steady, so I may stand firmly
planted until the day of your salvation.
A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger,
And it is his glory to overlook a transgression.
PROVERBS 19:11 NASB
“Love keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:5). We’ve heard it a million times. Still, record keeping comes more naturally than forgiveness. When someone does something that’s wrong, our natural reaction is to seek justice for our hurt. We know we are right, and we want to prove it.
Rushing to anger solves nothing. It takes a disciplined heart to stop, wait, and find a better way. You may think that being visibly right will elevate you. It might bring you glory, or you could be seen in the light you have always wanted. Your glory is in overlooking the wrong that was done to you. Since God sees everything, he knows when you are right and others have wronged you. He will bring you glory in his way and time. It will be far better than any glory you could have sought out for yourself.
Jesus, give me patience when I’ve been wronged.
Let me not rush into trying to prove my side of things
or taking my own glory. Give me slowness to anger,
and grace to overlook others’ offenses.
I will tell about the LORD’s kindness and praise him for
everything he has done. I will praise the LORD for the many good
things he has given us and for his goodness to the people of Israel.
He has shown great mercy to us and has been very kind to us.
ISAIAH 63:7 NCV
The Bible says that the kindness of the Lord leads people to repentance: not his anger, not his wrath—his kindness. There is power in kindness: a power that moves souls and changes lives. We can subconsciously equate kindness with weakness, but it’s the exact opposite.
The Israelites turned their backs on God too many times to count. But what we see time and time again in their story is that God was still good. He showed them mercy; he gave them good things. He was kind to them. This did not mean that consequences and trials didn’t come upon Israel, but the people knew God’s promises and trusted him. In the same way, we can trust God and turn to him often, confident that his mercy is present, even in suffering.
God, I sometimes miss your point. I assume that
you’re angry with me or that I’ve distanced myself
too far from you, but your arms are always open wide
to me. No matter how many times I turn my back
on you, you’re still constant in mercy.
I remain confident of this:
I will see the goodness of the LORD
in the land of the living.
PSALM 27:13 NIV
“It will be okay.” Parents soothe fretful children, professors console students, and spouses and siblings calm each other with those words. There is nothing more reassuring than a confident hope: a knowledge that what is coming is better than what is. We struggle with many difficulties through our lives, but hearing that it will be okay can be the difference between getting through it, and giving up.
God gives you a beautiful promise of hope to speak during the hardest of times. You can be confident that better things are coming. God has blessed you, and he will continue to bless you. You know you will see, firsthand, the goodness of a loving God in the land of the living—a glorious heaven. There, the living will not just be getting by, or barely getting through; they will be truly alive. They will taste and see that the Lord is good to them.
God, you are infinitely good. Thank you for promising
your goodness and your faithfulness to me. No matter
how hard things get, give me confidence that I will
see you and be alive with you.
I will show my love to those who passionately love me.
For they will search and search continually until they find me.
PROVERBS 8:17 TPT
You can always tell the measure of love by the lengths that love will go for others. Relentless passion and continual pursuit showcase love’s endurance. The one who gives up easily is one who never truly loved.
The depth of our love and desire for God is similarly exposed. How easily are we deterred from pursuing him? Do certain tasks and items distract us from seeking his presence? When we truly long to know Jesus personally, we won’t be stopped. Despite distraction or worry, we continue to seek him, pressing deeper and looking harder. We yearn for him in a way that won’t allow us to stop searching. We do not seek in vain, because he promises to show his love to those who love him passionately and seek him continually.
God, let my love for you be so passionate and so true
that other affections do not deter me. Let me set you as
the greatest love of my life, the one thing I seek more
fervently than any other. Help me to grow in my love
for you. Continue to reveal your love to me.
“Teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.
And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
MATTHEW 28:20 ESV
Life is made of seasons. For many of us, different people take part in each of those seasons. Your family was more than likely there from the beginning, followed by friends through school and college, and then maybe your spouse and kids if you got married and started a family. You lived a whole life before meeting your spouse and another before raising your children. Rarely do we have another person who was there through every moment of our life.
But God is the one who knows you in every season and every moment, more intimately than anyone else. He sees everything that makes up your heart: all the experiences and decisions that have come together to create your unique outlook and character. He is the ultimate faithful one—the one who is there through every season of your life, and he will be with you forever.
God, thank you for being with me through every season.
I know that you understand me fully because you know
everything I’ve gone through, even the pieces I’ve told
no one about. Thank you for your faithfulness to me.
A gentle answer deflects anger,
but harsh words make tempers flare.
PROVERBS 15:1 NLT
In the middle of an argument, the most difficult thing to do is to answer gently. To begin with, most of us find ourselves in arguments because both parties believe they are right. Gentle answers sacrifice the desire to make the other person see things our way. It’s humility in its purest form; it feels like less than we deserve.
When two people are simply trying to prove a point, are either of them prepared to learn? In the heat of argument, neither is teachable; each is too busy trying to prove an opinion, and no one wins. If Jesus’ birth and life on earth showed us anything, it’s that humility and lowliness—not pride or a pedestal—are the eternal victors.
God, when I’m fighting with someone, I want to
be right, not proven wrong. It’s so hard to let go of
a point and humble myself. You humbled yourself
in front of the people you created. The ones who
were supposed to bow to you insulted and spat on you,
but still you served them. Thank you for your
example of love and humility; give me the
courage and strength to follow it.
Servants, be subject to your masters with all respect,
not only to the good and gentle but also to the unjust.
1 PETER 2:18 ESV
It’s easier to serve people we admire. We look up to them, and we long to catch their attention by doing good for them. However, if God is going to be glorified in us, we have to serve both those we love and those who are hard to love.
Sometimes, we have bosses, superiors, and authorities in our lives who don’t lead well or fairly. Still, we have been placed under them by God, and we must serve and respect them. We have to remember that our one true authority is God, and he will see and reward our gentle obedience to his will.
Heavenly Father, I ask today for your grace to
submit to those in authority over me when I have
a hard time respecting them. You are my true master.
All the work and service I give to others is given to you.
When I struggle to serve, remind me of these truths.
Be still, and know that I am God.
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth!
PSALM 46:10 ESV
God never loses confidence in who he is. When we falter, become flustered, or wonder how a situation is going to work out, he reminds us to be still and remember him. Who is he? What is he worthy of? At the end of it all, we know he will be exalted in every nation, and everyone will bow to his name, as is his due.
No matter how difficult life gets, how hidden you feel, or how lost you become, don’t forget who you are. You are created in the image of God, and in the end, you’ll live forever with him through faith and grace. Don’t worry about the present when you know who holds the future. Be still, remember who he is, and remember who he created you to be.
Jesus, help me to be still and remember who you are.
Your power and your glory are not lessened by
the turmoil in this world. You have a plan and
a purpose for all of it, including me.
Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living
a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord.
HEBREWS 12:14 NLT
No opinion is valued by anyone more than by the person who holds it. We arrive at our varying opinions in different ways—some shaped by the life we’ve lived, people we’ve encountered, wrongs done to us, or convictions we sometimes can’t fully explain. Opinions come as we are shaped in life, and they shape us in return.
And while our opinions become an important part of us, how we express them to others is a delicate matter. We can alienate or bond with those with whom we share our opinions. This has been dramatically demonstrated by social media. There, opinions spew from the protective mask of a computer screen, the fallout feels leagues away, and offenses hide between the miles that separate people. God asks us to fight for peace and to work at living well with those around us, because when we lay down the need to be right and pick up the need to be loving, God is glorified and seen.
God, I fight daily with my desire to voice my opinion.
I feel that I’m owed that platform, and I often justify the
harsh words I use to deliver it. Remind me that I am a
walking representation of you. I do not want to confuse
someone about your love or grace because I failed to
demonstrate those in my desire to speak my mind.
For You, LORD, are good, and ready to forgive,
And abundant in mercy to all those who call upon You.
PSALM 86:5 NKJV
Sometimes, we forget that Jesus already won our forgiveness. We forget that the full work was done on the cross. There is nothing we can do or have to do to get his grace. Still, we sometimes tiptoe to God, wondering if mercy will be given. Have we gone too far for his grace this time? Again and again, he reminds us it is finished. We are forgiven and free.
The beautiful truth in this relationship is that the grace of God is never permission for mockery of God. The knowledge that forgiveness comes readily sparks a desire in our hearts to not need it. Once grace has been tasted, we don’t want to sin. Will we still struggle with our desires? Of course. Our greatest desire, however, will be to flourish under the mercy and compassion of our Father.
Lord God, thank you for the cross. Thank you for your
sacrificial forgiveness and mercy, which accomplished
their work a long time ago. I’m humbled by your great
love, and I want nothing more than to please you and
bring you glory. Give me the courage to repent freely,
and give me the strength to resist future temptation.
If you live without restraint
and are unable to control your temper,
you’re as helpless as a city with broken-down defenses,
open to attack.
PROVERBS 25:28 TPT
We often use the phrase I have a temper as though it is unique to some of us. Unfortunately, a temper is a built-in feature. We all have one. The question is, do we have control of it?
Everyone comes up against people and situations that push them to the edge. One irritation follows another, feeding our anger. If we let that rage go, allowing ourselves to be overtaken by it, we destroy our defenses. We can no longer say that we were in the right—because we weren’t. We lost control. Anger is a dangerous sin. While it isn’t above grace, it’s not without consequence. There are often casualties of anger, and the damage is done before we’ve had a moment to think.
God, I’m heartbroken over how easily I can lose my
temper. Anger boils over so quickly, and I am blind
in the moment. Through your Spirit, I know I can
overcome it. Give me the grace and the power to restrain
my anger and demonstrate your kindness.
Be still in the presence of the LORD,
and wait patiently for him to act.
Don’t worry about evil people who prosper
or fret about their wicked schemes.
PSALM 37:7 NLT
Distraction lurks everywhere. In the data age, there are a million screens, people, and gadgets fighting for our attention at any moment. It takes great amounts of effort and intention to stop, focus, and be still. In these fought for moments of stillness, we hear the voice of God the loudest.
When we quiet the sound of our surroundings and look away from attention grabbers, we can fully and clearly hear what he has to say. It’s not for us to worry about what’s going on the world. In fact, getting caught up in the sins of others takes our attention away from what God is trying to do inside of us. God will act. He will shine his glory on those who have lived in righteousness, and he will have his say against those who have turned their backs on him. We do not command that justice. God alone will decide and carry out his plan. We must just be still, and listen for his summons.
God, I have bought into this lie that I have to busy
myself in order to bring you glory and further your
kingdom. You didn’t ask me to execute your justice—
you asked me to be still and to wait for you to act.
Make your will clear in my life, and give me
the strength to do whatever you ask.
Hatred keeps old quarrels alive,
but love draws a veil over every insult
and finds a way to make sin disappear.
PROVERBS 10:12 TPT
It’s strange how we all struggle with memory until we’re offended. Then, suddenly, we can remember every detail clearly, every word or action that hurt or distanced us. Maybe it’s because we feel a deep emotional connection to the things that hurt us. Insults damage us deeply, leaving marks that aren’t easily erased.
Love has the power to heal the hurt. Love covers a multitude of sins, both those we’ve done and those done against us. When we make the conscious, albeit painstaking, choice to love past offense, our hurt evaporates with the insult. Love has the power to raise us up when we’ve been knocked down, and it can restore what hatred tried to destroy.
Lord, it’s never easy to let go of something
that has offended me. Sometimes, I hold onto
my pain in an attempt to find my own justice for it.
Remind me that love is always the better way.
Give me the strength to choose love.
Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint;
but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom’s instruction.
PROVERBS 29:18 NIV
Imagine you told a little girl that, someday, she’d get a prize, but you didn’t tell her why or how to get it. That child probably won’t do what you want her to do in order to earn the prize. All people, not just children, need directions. They need an end goal and instructions for getting there.
When you find yourself directionless, your guard comes down, and you are most susceptible to failure. You have to continually look to your guide and the directions laid out in Scripture. Without its instruction and hope, what reason will you have to stay on the path toward righteousness? Be diligent in your pursuit of revelation. Cast vision for yourself daily, and always hold it up to the standard of God’s plan for your life.
Lord, help me to be mindful of my own direction
or lack thereof. Don’t let me become apathetic
in my walk with you. I want to be a person
of vision, hope, and intention.
I am saying this for your benefit, not to place
restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you
serve the Lord best, with as few distractions as possible.
1 CORINTHIANS 7:35 NLT
“You’re missing out,” people might say to you when your Christian faith tells your heart to stop. God doesn’t set parameters for us because he wants us to miss out on something. He sets them because he doesn’t want us to miss out on his goodness. He knows how easily sin can derail a person, and he understands how quickly distractions of the flesh can separate someone from the rewards of the Spirit.
God’s desire for us is for undivided, content hearts, focused on him. He doesn’t want us at war within ourselves. He wants us to live in peace—his peace, which comes with a pure life.
God, remove the distractions from my life that are
keeping me from your goodness. Help me not to dismiss
your law as you wanting me to miss out. Help me to
trust that, when you speak to my spirit, you want the
best for me. I want a heart full of you, with no room for
distractions that take away from our relationship.
God is working in you, giving you the desire and
the power to do what pleases him.
PHILIPPIANS 2:13 NLT
Have you ever noticed that the longer you say no to a specific sin, the easier it is not to give in to it? That’s because you are not designed to be at war with sin forever. God is at work in you, giving you a stronger desire for righteousness as well as the capable power to do what is right.
When your struggle with sin feels like more than you can handle, and you feel the weight of temptation is crushing you, remember that you aren’t fighting alone. God is working within you, giving you the tools to overcome sin and walk in perpetual freedom.
Thank you, God, for the knowledge of your presence in
me. Daily, you are shaping me into the person I want to
be, one who lives a pure life before you. Your tools create
kindness, gentleness, patience, and ultimately victory.
When I beg for purification, you’ve already begun
the work. When I ask you for freedom, you’re already
breaking the chains. Continue this work in me.
The LORD directs the steps of the godly.
He delights in every detail of their lives.
Though they stumble, they will never fall,
for the LORD holds them by the hand.
PSALM 37:23-24 NLT
Don’t ever doubt God’s intimate interest in you. Not even for a second. He created you, and he cares about your story as he adds new paragraphs every day. He feels your pain, sees your joy, and lavishes his love on you throughout it all.
When you stumble, you won’t fall. You might feel as though you’ve been laid low. You might feel as though your future is crashing down around you, but he’s never stopped holding it all together. He doesn’t just know what you are going through, he delights in it. He sees the end, and he knows that everything works out. You will stumble, you won’t fall. Don’t lose sight of that incredible truth.
God, thank you for holding my hand through life. Thank
you for directing my steps. Sometimes I feel
so alone, but the truth is that I never am. When I look
back on my life, I can see your faithfulness at work.
Continue to lead me, and let my hand remain in yours.
“In the same way, I tell you there is more joy in heaven
over one sinner who changes his heart and life, than over
ninety-nine good people who don’t need to change.”
LUKE 15:7 NCV
It’s easy to get caught up in the big moments of faith that sweep us away. We are drawn to the biblical stories of thousands of souls saved, bodies healed, and demons cast out. The stories of just one are less glamorous. Let’s say a ministry invests money, time, and energy into opening a coffee shop, only to shut it down two years later. Those involved might wonder, Was it worth it? Did the money, time, and effort save one soul? Would that make the shop worth it? God would say yes.
We want signs and wonders to define a great ministry. The coffee shop is a failure to us, but heaven rejoices over the faithfulness of those Christians and over the one new believer. When we grasp his love and pursuit for the one, we can understand the joy in salvation. Let’s dwell on the length that Christ will go for one soul, and what he did to save us. Let us realign our thinking of true ministry to capture the joy of heaven over the one.
Jesus, thank you for pursuing me. Give me a desire
to pursue others with the truth of the gospel,
whether a group or a single soul.
When your heart overflows with understanding
you’ll be very slow to get angry.
But if you have a quick temper,
your impatience will be quickly seen by all.
PROVERBS 14:29 TPT
Anger is a symptom. When we don’t connect to and deal with a problem, anger tells us that it is bubbling under our skin. If you find yourself in a constant state of anger, it’s time to tend to your heart. The wellspring of life flows from your heart. Is Christ’s life flowing from your heart, or is it anger from bitterness, control issues, depression, anxiety, or pride?
Here in Proverbs, a heart overflowing with understanding slows anger. Does your soul need care? Are you pulling water from an empty well? If you continue on that path, you will pull up anger. It is important to take care of your soul to produce a life of patience. What restores you? Where are your still waters? It is not selfish to take care of yourself. To have patience with others, you must be patient with yourself. Allow yourself to rest in God’s presence. Understanding your soul is key to a heart that draws from a well of life and brims with understanding, not anger.
Jesus, I repent of anger in my heart.
Refresh my wellspring, refresh my soul,
and let me draw from living waters.
Since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses,
let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely,
and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.
HEBREWS 12:1 ESV
Once every two years, the whole world turns its eyes to one place. Not toward a catastrophe or war, but toward inspiration at the Olympics. The crowds near and far support their favorite athletes, cheer on underdogs, and admire the winners. Four years later, beloved athletes can find trouble. They could be forgotten by the crowd that once held them so high.
We, too, run a race. It’s important to notice the cloud, the innumerable number of “athletes” that have gone before you. They have run this race, and they have finished well. This is not a crowd that will turn against you, but a gathering of faithful witnesses. They cheer loudly for your endurance in faith. They are a crowd clothed in the righteousness of Jesus, encouraging you to discard your filthy robes and run free. The race requires patience, and you have an audience full of people cheering you on.
Thank you, God, for those who have gone
before me. Thank you that we can run the race well
in your strength. Continue your work of patience
and endurance in my heart.
“I know your deeds, your love and faith,
your service and perseverance, and that you are
now doing more than you did at first.”
REVELATION 2:19 NIV
Being filled with the Holy Spirit is not a one-time thing. When you become a believer, the Holy Spirit comes to dwell inside you and should be like a cup of water that is so full it sloshes out on everything around it. Is that how people would describe you?
Such overflowing people exist; you can probably think of a few. It’s evident and real. This person is not tied to agendas, schedules, and to-do lists, but is willing and open to the Spirit’s call. God is moving in our world, and our job is to partner with him. Lay down your agenda today, release your grip on your day planner, and grab hold of God’s outstretched hand. He wants to use you in mighty ways.
Lord, I repent of running my life based on my agenda.
Thank you for working in this world. Can I partner with
you today? Show me the moments where you want me
to slow down and speak truth or act in your name.
You know that these troubles test your faith,
and this will give you patience.
JAMES 1:3 NCV
Patience cannot be defined as waiting. When you are waiting for a friend to come over, but you are casually reading a book or enjoying the rest of your dinner, you do not need patience. It produces no discomfort for you. However, if you are in discomfort, then you show patience by not complaining. Can you be patient and complain? In situations that involve suffering, situations that are not petty or pointless, the answer is yes. Several times, the psalmist cries out to God. The writer was being tested. Still, the complaints reveal patience, because they speak to the sovereignty of God over the pain. They speak for the faith of the writer that God was in control of it all.
If you are in a season of suffering, do not be afraid to bring your requests to God. It’s not impatience to ask him, like the psalmist, “How long, O Lord?” It is an awareness of the one who is in control and is producing more fruit in your life.
God, even in my discomfort, I acknowledge your
sovereignty over my situation. Help me to endure
hard times, knowing you are in control.
The people of the island were very kind to us.
It was cold and rainy so they built a fire
on the shore and welcomed us.
ACTS 28:2 NLT
Hospitality is a vibrant and beautiful spiritual gift that is often overlooked. In Acts, the apostles appoint seven Spirit-filled people to attend to the hospitality needs of the community. In Hebrews 13:2, we are told our hospitality might entertain angels.
Hospitality is all about little gestures. It is the cozy warmth of home, that tears down a traveler’s protective walls, allowing peace to fill their hearts. It meets simple needs. Through crackling fires, fresh beds, and clean water, kindness shines. Scripture tells us that God’s kindness leads us to repentance. May our simple, hospitable kindness reveal the grace of Christ and lead others to repentance. Isn’t that what every gift is for, what every fruit is about? That all would see and know the saving grace of God.
Dear Lord, thank you for the hospitable welcome
into your kingdom. How can I show kindness
to others today? Please open doors and provide
opportunities for me to offer simple hospitality.
You have put more joy in my heart
than they have when their grain and wine abound.
PSALM 4:7 ESV