HOW TO BUILD A LOVING RELATIONSHIP. E-Book

Hugo Richard Vogel

• Herausgeber: neobooks
• Kategorie: Lebensstil
• Sprache: Deutsch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2018

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Beschreibung

This book has a specific purpose. It is a textbook that shows how couples can build a loving relationship. It's not philosophical. It is a practical manual. This isn't about proving any theories. It is intended for those who want to have a life partner. For those who want to find a partner first and then possibly philosophize.

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Hugo Richard Vogel

HOW TO BUILD A LOVING RELATIONSHIP.

THE SCIENCE OF PARTNERFINDING.

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Inhaltsverzeichnis

Titel

Foreword:

2 There is a science of finding a partner.

3. are the best already taken?

4. The first principle of the science of partner finding.

5. Growth of life

6. How the right partner comes to you.

7. Gratitude

8. Thinking in the specific way

9. How to use your will.

10. Further application of the will.

11. Acting in a particular way.

12. Effective action

13. Choosing the right partner

14. The expression of multiplication at all levels.

15. The evolving relationship

16. Contemplation

17. Quick guide to finding the ideal life partner.

18. Learning goal control for the science of partner finding.

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Foreword:

HOW TO BUILD A LOVING RELATIONSHIP.

THE SCIENCE OF PARTNERFINDING.

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It has a specific purpose. It is a textbook that shows how couples can build a loving relationship. It's not philosophical. It is a practical manual. This isn't about proving any theories. It is intended for those who want to have a life partner. For those who want to find a partner first and then possibly philosophize.

It is for those who have not had the time, the money, or the opportunity to care about the philosophical backgrounds of life. It is for people who want a loving, harmonious, happy relationship. For those who want to use the results of psychological research. It is written for those who have no intention of finding out how the relevant researchers came to this conclusion.

You are expected to simply take note of the basic statements in this book. You are expected to assume that the statements are correct.

Like when an electrician tells you not to climb a pylon.

No explanation why not.

Anyone who does what is described in this book will undoubtedly find a partner who suits him. Because the science used in this book is an exact science. Failure is not possible if the principle is observed. If one adheres to the laws of nature described in this book, success is certain.

I would like to emphasize once again that the contents of this book do not come from me. I have applied these principles of success only to this one project, "How to establish a harmonious relationship".

But I can only give you the key to building a harmonious relationship if you are willing to do so.

Some of you may find this key in the first chapter. Others only in one of the last parts. However, if you have a readiness to learn index of at least one, then your success is almost certain.

But for those who want to study philosophical theories in order to get an explanation why this is the way it is. Here are some philosophical authorities.

You can study it if you want to know why it is the way it is.

These are the works of:

Rene´Descartes, where the famous phrase "I think I am" comes from.

Gottfried Willhelm Leibnitz, who said of himself: "When I woke up I had so many ideas that the day was not enough to write them down.

Baruch de Spinoza, who invented the word "disimprovements."

Waldo Emerson, whose work "Nature" ends with an appeal.

"So build your own world."

Georg Friedrich Wilhelm Hegel, the author of the statement: "The true is the whole".

and

Arthur Schopenhauer, who made the appeal: "Don't hurt anyone but help everyone as much as you can."

In writing I concentrated on writing it in easy to understand sentences. I want everyone to understand. I use short sentences. I forgo literary gimmicks.

The approach comes from the philosophers' conclusions. The instructions are thoroughly checked. She passes every practical test.

If you want to find out how I came up with it, then read the works of the philosophers mentioned above.

If you want to take advantage of her work, read this book and do what it says. (1)

Hugo Richard Vogel

1. The right to a life partner.

Whatever has been said to justify living alone, the fact remains that it is not possible for a person to lead a truly successful and accomplished life unless he has a life partner who suits him. For a heterosexual person this is a heterosexual person. For a homosexual person this is a homosexual life partner.

A person needs a partner at his side for his personal development with whom he can share his experiences.

No person can ascend to his highest spiritual development unless he has someone who motivates him and values his performance. For his personal development it is necessary to get feedback from a partner who sees the world from a different perspective than himself. No one can get that feedback if they live alone.

Every person develops his mind, his soul and his body further by receiving feedback from a life partner who basically perceives the world from a different perspective than himself. It follows that people need a partner to develop further. Therefore, the science of partner finding is the basis for all progress of mankind.

The purpose of all life is development. Everything that lives has the right to evolve as far as it can.

Everyone has the right to develop in his or her life as far as possible. This applies to all areas of life. Not only mental, but also spiritual or physical development is meant. The achievement of the greatest possible prosperity is also meant. This gives them the right to live with a partner.

In this book I am not talking about platonic relationships in which people live in different apartments. I don't mean relationships where a man lives in Hong Kong and his wife in Germany. I also mean non-mixed flat-sharing. No one should be satisfied with a relationship in which the interaction is superficial.

No one should agree to a relationship in which the two can only meet or talk on the phone at weekends. By cohabitation I mean sharing table, bed and chair. In cahoots.

The purpose of nature is progress and development of life. Everyone should have everything that improves their quality of life. To be satisfied with seeing one's partner only rarely is a mistake because it hampers the personal development of both.

Only the one who lives in a community is able to develop as far as possible. A person who does not have a life partner cannot achieve everything he would like to achieve because he lacks help in further development. Life has become so advanced and complicated that an intensive relationship between two people is necessary for constructive further development.

Of course, everyone wants to become everything he or she is capable of. The desire to achieve one's own goals is innate to human nature. We can't change wanting to be everything we can be. Success in life is to become what you want to be. You can only become what you want to be as you evolve. For this you need a competent partner who gives you feedback about what you are doing from a point of view of things you don't have.

The science of how to get a life partner is therefore the most essential of all knowledge for a person.

There is nothing wrong with the desire to have a suitable life partner. What I understand by fitting I have already revealed and I will show in the further course of the book. The desire for a suitable life partner is the desire for a richer, fuller life. This wish is appropriate and commendable. Always.

There are three reasons we live for. We live for the body, the mind and the soul. None of these three is more important or better than the others. All are equally valuable. None of the three can express themselves completely if one is completely neglected. It is not right to live only for the soul and therefore to neglect the mind or the body. It is also not right to live only for the mind and to neglect body and soul. Of course, there is no point in just living for the body and turning off the mind. Real life means the balanced expression of all three in balance.

Whatever someone may say. Nobody can be really happy if their body is not healthy. And the same goes for his mind and his soul.

If one of the three is denied expression, then unsatisfied desires arise. If one of the three is neglected, then certain tasks simply cannot be completed.

A person cannot live happily without good food, comfortable clothes, a nice home and freedom from constant drudgery. Peace and relaxation are also

necessary for his physical life. If two people share work, living space and income it is much easier to achieve this than in a single life in which one has to do everything on one's own and pay for the entire added value alone.

A person also cannot live happily without time for further training for travel and observation. He also needs opportunities for entertainment at a level that suits him. This is also easier to achieve in pairs than alone

To be mentally happy, it is also necessary to be able to surround oneself with beautiful things that one values. Finding beautiful things is also easier to achieve together with a life partner. Four eyes see more than two.

In order to live a complete soul, a person must be able to love. He who lives permanently alone denies love to his fellow human beings.

The highest happiness of man lies in giving good things to those whom he loves. Love finds its most natural expression in giving. He who gives spontaneously loves. The person who feels he has nothing to give stops at his development status. He's not evolving. But standstill is backlog in the stream of time. (2)

In giving material things a person finds full life for his body. In giving he develops his mind. In giving he unfolds his soul. It is therefore of the highest value for a person to have a soul mate. He can express his love to him by giving.

It is absolutely right that you should wish to have the best soul mate in the world. It is just as true that you should pay the greatest attention to science, to finding a partner. You have a duty to try as hard as you can. You can't do more service to others than to make the best of yourself. To do this, it is necessary that you find your soul mate.

When I write in this book about the right to partnership, I am not only referring to partnerships between men and women but also specifically to civil partnerships between two same-sex people who love each other.

2 There is a science of finding a partner.

There is a science of partner finding, and it is an exact science like physics or mathematics. There are certain laws of nature that regulate how to find a suitable life partner. The laws of nature apply to every human being regardless of his or her predisposition. No matter if the person is heterosexual, homosexual or lesbian. As soon as these laws are recognized and applied by a person, he will find with mathematical certainty the life partner that is exactly right for him.

Living together with a partner is the result of acting in a certain way. Those who do things in a certain way find a life partner. Others who do not do things in this particular way remain alone however hard they try. You cannot find a suitable partner. It doesn't matter how hard they try. It just doesn't work. It does not matter which abilities or which appearance or which social status they have.

That the above statement is correct can be seen from the following facts.

Finding the right partner is not a matter of the environment. If this were the case, all people in a particular residential area would have found the ideal partner. All the inhabitants of a place would live in a happy relationship. On the other hand, all inhabitants of another place would live without partners. Or the inhabitants of one city would all be happily married, while the inhabitants of another city would all be divorced.

But everywhere we see people who live in partnerships and those who live separately in the same environment and often also within the same social class.

But if two people live in the same place and belong to the same social class and one finds the ideal partner and the other remains alone, it becomes clear that it does not depend on the place and social status.

Rather, finding a soul mate is the result of doing things in a certain way.

It is not the circumstances that determine our lives but our decisions, which we make consciously or unconsciously. (3)

The ability to do things in a certain way is the only thing that matters. It doesn't matter what abilities or talents a person has. People with a lot of talent can fail to find a partner while others who have little talent find a soul mate.

If we take a closer look at the people who have found a life partner, it turns out that they have average dexterity. They have no greater talents or abilities than other people. It is clear that they have not found a partner because they have special talents or abilities. They have no talents that other people don't have. They find a partner because they do things intentionally or accidentally in a certain way.

Living with a loved one is not the result of someone staying at home and caring only and exclusively for that person. Many people who cling to their partner lose it, while others who have numerous acquaintances and friendships with whom they go out keep their partner.

Also, nobody keeps the ideal partner because he creates things that others can't. Because two people working in the same field often do almost the same things. Nevertheless, one celebrates a golden wedding and the other gets divorced.

So I come to the statement that finding a life partner is the result of doing things in the definite way.

But if finding a life partner is the result of doing things in a certain way, and if the same causes always bring the same results, then every man and every woman can find the ideal life partner in this way. The topic of partner finding becomes tangible within the field of exact science.

The question is, of course, whether this particular way may be so difficult that few can follow it. That can't be true. As we've seen. Talented people find a partner and fools find a partner. Intellectually great people find a partner and stupid people find a partner. Physically strong people find a partner and weak people get a life partner.

A certain degree of ability to think must naturally exist. But as far as his natural abilities are concerned, anyone who has enough sense to read and understand this book can undoubtedly find a partner.

We realize once again that it is not a matter of the environment. The location counts for something. If you want to meet someone, you have to go where people are.

Necessarily someone who wants to find a life partner has to deal with people and be there where there are people he wants to get in contact with. And if these people are willing to deal with us the way we want them to. But that's all there is to it's surroundings.

If anyone else in the place where you live can find a life partner, so can you.

I would like to repeat once again, because this point is important. It is not a question of what income someone has or what profession they pursue that influences whether or not they find a partner. People with any income and any profession can find a partner. They can be direct door neighbours. One finds the love of his life and the other remains alone for a lifetime.

It is true that the easiest way to find a suitable partner is in a place and in an activity you like. But people come together in any place.

You will also find the easiest way to find a partner in a place where people speak your language and