Setting Successful Goals in Life E-Book

Edward Dzerinyuy Bello

• Herausgeber: Books on Demand
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2022

Seitenzahl: 96

Beschreibung

To everything there is a season ( Ecl. 3.1 ). Nothing is permanent, except God and His promises ( Miles Monroe, from Seasons of change: Understanding purpose in times of perplexity, 1998 ). Seasons guarantee change, give hope and the incentive to plan. The key to life is outlasting a season and smartly setting your goals beyond the season to ensure reaping the best harvest into the desired future. Therefore, seasons are God's greatest gifts to all and everything that God created. Inspired by his own life experiences, the author EDWARD DZERINYUY BELLO, presents an opportunity to aspiring goal achievers, to learn from his own life journey through this book, "Setting Successful Goals in Life". In doing so, the author allows himself to be vulnerable to the outside world in openly sharing about his private life experiences, a selfless, yet as Monroe noted, the vital key to outlasting a season. while "Setting Successful Goals in Life" presented space for the author to pen down both the good and challenging life experiences and how his faith in God and lessons from others informed the person he has become through his life journey, any person who aspires to live a purpose driven life and particularly, project management students, corporate management and leaders will find this book valuable. Ntombekhaya Tshabalala, PhD

Leseprobe

Some open Books by the author include.

Unternehmensführung in Südafrika

ISBN: 3754302922

EAN: 9783754302927

South African Corporate Governance Agenda

ISBN: 3753403261

EAN: 9783753403267

YOU ARE THE GREATEST in-conversation with yourself

ISBN: 3755735172

EAN: 9783755735175

Random Leaves from my Diary Bernard Nsokika Fonlon

ISBN: 3754309137

EAN: 9783754309131

At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.

Albert Schweitzer

Dedicated

I dedicate this book to GOD Almighty all my friends, family, partners who have stood up for me in the past years.

Special dedication to.

My daughter Rosalie Fomo-Nyuy Bello who shaped my life with all her wits, her dog Elio.

My father Edward W. Bello senior for his mentoring.

My mother, Agnes Wiysenyuy Bello who taught me the values of prayers and trusting GOD first.

My friends with whom I share much common values to empower African women and children; a role model South African genuine genius Ms. Ntombekhaya Tshabalala (PhD).

Contents

Acknowledgment

Preface

About Edward Dzerinyuy Bello

Introduction

Chapter 1 Goal Setting What is it

Chapter 2 SMARTH Method

Chapter 3 Responsibility

Chapter 4 Resources

Chapter 5 Action

Chapter 6 Focus

Chapter 7 Trusting God

Chapter 8 A Coach, a role model, a mentor

Chapter 9 Self Reflection and Self Awareness References

Acknowledgement

When I released my book; The Role Of Culture And Communication In Mediation I felt more passion to finish the other book I have been working on. As the Bible says, Knowledge is power, and my people perish for lack of knowledge. This book SETTING SUCCESSFUL GOALS IN LIFE (GOAL MANAGEMENT) is sharing my knowledge openly what helped me to set my goals in life. What helped me to go after what I want and what helped me to be myself. The most important thing in life is to be happy and you can only be happy by doing what you love and loving what you do. Life tends to be happy and healthy when our goals align with our God given talents. I trust this book, will simplify, and help anyone who wants to set goals and develop the natural talents.

Humbling,

Edward Dzerinyuy Bello

FFounder

BE YOU systemiches Coaching und Mediator UG Haftungsbeschränkt FIRMABELLO BE BERATUNGSMANAGEMENT UG HAFTUNGSBESCHRÄNKT

www.edwarddbello.de

Preface

To everything there is a season (Ecl.3:1). Nothing is permanent, except God and His promises (Miles Monroe, from Seasons of change: Understanding purpose in times of perplexity,1998).

Seasons guarantee change, give hope and the incentive to plan. The key to life is outlasting a season by reflecting on the lessons through the season and smartly setting your goals beyond the season to ensure reaping the best harvest into the desired future. Therefore, seasons are God’s greatest gifts to all and everything that God created.

Inspired by his own life experiences, the authorEdward Dzerinyuy Bello, presents an opportunity to aspiring goal achievers, to learn from his own life journey through this book, “Setting successful goals in life”.

In doing so, the author allows himself to be vulnerable to the outside world in openly sharing about his private life experiences, a selfless, yet as Monroe noted, the vital key to outlasting a season. While “Setting successful goals in life” presented space for the author to pen down both the good and challenging life experiences and how his faith in God and lessons from others informed the person he has become through his life journey, any person who aspires to live a purpose driven life and particularly, project management students, will find this book valuable.

Ntombekhaya Tshabalala, PhD

Disability Studies (UCT) https://orcid.org/0000-0002-3395-931X

Founder Director at http://www.imijelo.org/ Imijelo yophuhliso;

Research Fellow at Department of Business Management, Faculty of Management and Commerce, University of Fort Hare, East London, South Africa

Ntombekhaya Tshabalala grew up in eCumakala, Stutterheim in the Eastern Cape Province, South Africa where early social challenges shaped her career path and the person she has become. She studied Social Sciences, Housing Development & Management and acquired a PhD in Disability Studies. Through the support received during her postdoctoral fellowship at the University of Cape Town and later in Stellenbosch University, she began her current work with Savings and Investment Groups as a strategy to assist parents of children with disabilities address socioeconomic challenges in various villages around the Eastern Cape Province, South Africa. Her long-term goal is the establishment of Financial Resource Centers, promoting community collaboration and solidarity using values of “Ubuntu” as a basis to regenerate wealth and morality.

About the author:

Edward Dzerinyuy Bello was born in Nkar village Nso tribe in the northwest region of Cameroon Africa. Studied in Cameroon and Germany. He’s the founder of FIRMABELLO BE BERATUNGSMANAGEMENT UG HAFTUNGSBESCHRÄNKT (FIRMABELLO BE ADVISINGMANAGEMENT Limited liability company) and BE YOU systemisches Coaching und Mediator UG HAFTUNGSBESCHRÄNKT (BE YOU systematic coaching and mediation limited company). Some of his books include South African Corporate Governance Agenda, YOU ARE THE GREATEST- in conversation with yourself. He lives in historic city of Potsdam. He enjoys listening to classical music, jogging, and walking. www.edwarddbello.de

Introduction

What do I really want in life?

The question I asked myself some decades ago. Truth be told, I did not know what I wanted in life. What did I really want in my life? after some soul-searching moments and a while of constant rumination, I could still not clearly define what I really wanted in life.

I came to understand that before I could be great and be myself, I needed to love what I do and do what I love. With this, I would know exactly what I want in my life.

Understanding what I wanted in life was the genesis of developing myself into being great and appreciative of myself as a person.

We all have wishes, we all have desires, we all have dreams we all have passions, and we all have diverse feelings which could be this or that.

This can only be fulfilled if we can certainly know and say what we want in life.

This pushed me to start setting life goals.

Setting goals is important because.

It helps us have a focus target

It helps us to be responsible

It helps us stay committed to achieving something

It helps us develop a passion to execute

It helps you love yourself and develop a natural love in doing what you love.

Setting goals above all makes me happy

Chapter One:

Goal setting what is it?

Goal setting involves the development of an action plan designed to motivate and guide a person or group toward a goal. Goals are more deliberate than desires and momentary intentions. Therefore, setting goals means that a person has committed thought, emotion, and behavior towards attaining the goal. In doing so, the goal setter has established a desired future state which differs from their current state thus creating a mismatch which in turn spurs future actions.

Reference: 1

Goal setting is an important process because it must be unique and strong, as you take time to think about your ideal life you want to live by achieving your goals. You will take action to change this thinking of your dreams and visions into real life.

The process of taking time to set your goals and to work on them is important as this defines everything you have hope and dreamed to be.

Setting goals:

I will personally recommend the best way to set a goal is to.

a) write it down with your hand on a piece of paper, diary, notebook

Reference: 2

b) or on a vision board

Reference: 3

Another good factor after writing down your goals I suggest that you take time and prioritize your goals in a list format.

On the second piece of paper or on another vision board. Prioritize your goals maybe in a numerical order or alphabetical order, 1,2, 3, 4, 5, 6 or A, B, C, D, E, F...

Reference: 4

Reference: 5

Writing your goals down gives your conscious mind to have it fixed in your sub conscious mind. The good thing about writing generally is that you are seeing it with your eyes what you are writing, and the mind automatically has great memory on it. When you visualize how you are writing it, it sticks deeper.

There is an article I read which stroke deeply the importance of goals writing and I cannot agree more with Mr. Sing a writer and motivational speaker. Mr. Sing gave some 7 reasons of writing down your goals as his article explains.

The importance of writing your goals down.

“7 benefits of writing down your goals…

1. It will give you a roadmap for what to do next.

How will you achieve anything if you don’t know what to achieve? How will you reach your destination if you don’t know where to go?

Having your goals clearly written down helps you do move forward towards your goals. It will help you to stay determined and focused. Having written goals will help you to concentrate your mind on one desired outcome (and the steps needed to see it to completion). Without knowing what to do, you can do nothing.

2. You have a reason to start your day.

It also gives you the actions necessary to see the result you’re hoping for. We waste a lot of our time in deciding what to do and what not to do. But if you have clear written goals, you can kick start your day instantly. Millions of people waste their entire lives because they don’t have a reason to start their day. So, to start your day, you must write down your goals clearly (including the necessary supporting action steps).

3. It keeps you on track.

If you know the destination, it will keep you on track. Suppose you are going to a place 100 miles away from home, it is possible that you might take a wrong turn, but you can ask someone for directions and get back on track quickly. Everyone has experienced this at one time or another in their life. So, knowing where to go will keep you on track if you get distracted or end up heading the wrong way. Having your goals written down — can act as a well needed road map when we find ourselves off track with regards to the direction, we want our lives to go.

4. Easy to track your progress.

If you know what you are heading for, you can track your progress easily. What can be analyzed can be improved as well. Tracking your progress will let you know when you need to accelerate your efforts or when to stop it. Even business keeps track of their sales progress chart. So, just like an entrepreneur, writing your goals down will help you to track your progress.

5. It compels you to give extra effort.

Once you have written your goals it becomes mandatory for you to achieve your goals. It compels you to give extra efforts, it compels you to get out of your comfort zone and raise your standards. Writing your goals down will make you achieve more success.

6. You don’t get messed up.

Writing down your goals will move in the right direction, and you don’t get messed up. A neat and tidy study table is more useful than an untidy one. So, once you have written your goals, you can move right towards your goals.