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The philosophy that will help you become more resilient in the face of life's challenges Stoicism For Dummies will teach you the basic principles of stoic philosophy and show you how it can help you navigate the ups and downs of life. We all face challenges and setbacks, and, if we have the right mindset, we can sail through them with ease. This book offers a comprehensive look at Stoic philosophy, uncovering its strengths and attractions and shedding light on its limitations, both in the ancient world where it was developed, and in our world today. Learn how you can apply stoic principles for personal growth and better living, and how you can adapt this philosophical outlook to your unique circumstances. Written in terms anyone can understand, this friendly Dummies guide helps you understand stoicism, and also apply it in your life. * Understand the basics of stoic philosophy, including virtues and practices * Learn how to keep calm and carry on when life throws you curveballs * Apply stoic principles to improve your relationships and quality of life * Discover the history of stoicism and how its principles can apply to today's world This book is great for anyone who wants to learn more about stoicism and its benefits.

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Stoicism For Dummies®

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Table of Contents

Cover

Title Page

Copyright

Introduction

About This Book

Foolish Assumptions

Icons Used in This Book

Beyond the Book

Where to Go from Here

Part 1: Ancient Stoicism

Chapter 1: Stoicism: A Philosophy for Our Time

A Way of Thought for Our Time

What Does “Philosophy” Even Mean?

What Wisdom Is and Is Not

Using Wisdom with the Stoics

Chapter 2: Socrates and the Beginnings of Western Philosophy

Heraclitus the (Cranky and) Obscure

Socrates: The Barefoot Gadfly and General Pain-in-the-Patootie of Ancient Athens

Diogenes of Sinope: Socrates on Steroids

Chapter 3: The First Stoics

The Basic Teachings of Zeno and His Stoic Followers

Why Stoicism Had Its Moment in Ancient Greece and Rome

Chapter 4: Stoicism Comes to Rome

Seneca and Epictetus

Seneca: Wealthy but Frugal

Epictetus: Slave Turned Philosopher

Chapter 5: Marcus Aurelius: Philosopher-Emperor

A Stoic Philosopher Comes to the Throne

Two Themes in Marcus’s Philosophy

The Demise of Ancient Stoicism

Part 2: The Stoic Worldview

Chapter 6: The Stoic View of Reality

Everything Is Made of Matter

God and Nature

The Place of Humanity in the Cosmos

Chapter 7: Providence, Fate, and Free Will

“Everything Is Fated”

Is God to Blame for Evil?

Stoic Fate and Passivity

Part 3: Stoic Ethics

Chapter 8: Virtue as the Goal of Life

Virtus and Arete

Virtue at the Center

Happiness and Virtue

The Good, Bad, and Indifferent

Chapter 9: Things We Can Control

The Dichotomy of Control

Exploring the Concept of Control

The Problem of External Goals

Trying Our Best

An Alternate Strategy

Chapter 10: Desire and the Happy Life

Getting Clear about Desire

Desire and Happiness

An Opportunity for Hope

Chapter 11: Pleasure and Pain

The Epicurean Pull of Pleasure

Pleasure and Pain with the Stoics

Using Sensations and Situations

Chapter 12: Natural Law

What Is Natural Law?

Natural Law in Roman Law

Modern Stoicism and Natural Law

Chapter 13: Building Strong Communities

Philosophers as Social Advisors

The Two Roots of Community

Plato and Aristotle Behind It All

Circles of Community and Care

Part 4: Passions and Emotions

Chapter 14: Stoic Apathy: Why You Should Care

Two Ideas of Apathy

Definitions and Images in Film

Digging Deeper into Stoic Apathy

The Discipline We Need

The Nature of Emotions

Apathy and Ataraxia

Finding Sensible Peace

Concluding Thoughts on Apathy

Chapter 15: Love and Friendship

Two Big Ideas for Friendship and Love

True Friendship

The Interpenetrating Unity of Souls

Stoics in Love and on It

Sex and Love with the Stoics

Chapter 16: The Fear of Death

Matters of Life and Death

Philosophy as Preparation for Death

Two Epicurean Efforts to Calm Us Down

Epictetus Against Fearing Death

Marcus Aurelius Weighs in on Death

Seneca’s Quantity or Quality Argument

Part 5: Stoic Virtues

Chapter 17: The Master Virtues

The Nature of Virtue

The Stoic View of Virtue

The Four Cardinal Virtues

Chapter 18: Finding Resilience and Inner Peace

Resilience: The Art of Bouncing Back

The Stoic Quest for Inner Peace

Part 6: Stoicism Today

Chapter 19: The Stoic Next Door: The Popular Revival of Stoicism Today

The Rise of Modern Stoicism

Leading Figures in Modern Stoicism

Chapter 20: Modern Stoicism

What Is Modern Stoicism?

Key Differences: Ancient and Modern

Modern Stoicism: Down and Upsides

Part 7: The Part of Tens

Chapter 21: Ten Books Every (Budding) Stoic Should Read

The Inner Citadel: The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius

A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy

The Stoic Art of Living: Inner Resilience and Outer Results

How To Be a Stoic

How to Think Like a Roman Emperor: The Stoic Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius

The Stoics (2nd edition)

The Obstacle Is the Way

The Daily Stoic

Epictetus: A Stoic and Socratic Guide

Breakfast with Seneca: A Stoic Guide to the Art of Living

Chapter 22: Ten Great Stoic Blogs and Podcasts

Daily Stoic Blog

Stoicism Today Blog

Figs in Winter Blog

Stoicism: Philosophy as a Way of Life

Traditional Stoicism Blog

Daily Stoic Podcast

The Walled Garden Podcast

Stoic Meditations Podcast

Stoicism: Philosophy As a Way of Life Podcast

Stoic Coffee Break Podcast

Index

About the Authors

Advertisement Page

Connect with Dummies

End User License Agreement

List of Tables

Chapter 10

TABLE 10-1 Three Spiritual Disciplines

List of Illustrations

Chapter 8

FIGURE 8-1: A not-so-subtle reminder that virtue matters.

Chapter 10

FIGURE 10-1: The glasses represent whether your desires are satisfied or unsati...

Guide

Cover

Table of Contents

Title Page

Copyright

Begin Reading

Index

About the Authors

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Introduction

Half the secret to living a good and happy life may be in knowing what to embrace and what to release. Most of us seem to get this wrong much of the time, embracing what we should release and releasing what we should embrace. There is some great ancient wisdom right now sweeping across the world and changing lives for the better that can show us how to get this right, and what it means to do so properly, in ways that really matter.

A group of philosophers in ancient Greece and Rome known as Stoics powerfully addressed the question of how best to live in a world of challenge and change. They had distinctive views about happiness and the good life, which they thought of as arising from personal excellence and moral virtue lived well in healthy communities. Their best insights have survived through the centuries to burst forth anew in our time. They offer deep and practical perspectives on finding a sense of real meaning, on joyful resilience, personal power amid turbulence, and a sense of inner calm in confronting uncertainty that may be just what’s needed in our day.

About This Book

This is the right book for you if you’ve heard about Stoicism from a podcast or through friends and want to learn more, or if you’ve read one of the bestselling books that are reintroducing this distinctive philosophy into our time and would like an opportunity to work more fully through the powerful and fascinating array of ideas to be found in this way of thinking and living. It’s also the right book for you even if you hardly know much about the Stoics at all but are ready for some fresh perspectives on your life, for some new ways of handling what’s challenging and difficult, and perhaps even for liberating yourself from so many of the forces that seem to hold people back from being their best, feeling their best, and doing their best in the world.

The most helpful philosophers seek to understand life better and live it more meaningfully. They want to attain the deepest perspectives possible about this world to enhance and improve their own experiences of living. They take nothing for granted but question and probe in search of illumination and perspective. And then they seek to bring their discoveries to the rest of us.

We all want to understand the best wisdom there is for how we can live and move and grow. And you’re in luck, because getting at least a good start on that task is the purpose of this book. We’ll give you the key background history and the greatest thoughts of some of the most interesting practical thinkers in history, in many ways just normal, smart people who used their curiosity and their talents well, and in that way reached extraordinary heights in their thoughts and daily practices for living well. And now they can help us to do the same in our own lives.

You don’t need to be an academic or a world-class visionary to benefit from looking more closely at the fundamental issues of your life, as framed by some of the wisest guides who have tackled these questions before us. This book is really about the challenges you face in your everyday life. And any new measure of understanding you can gain from smart people who have grappled with these issues before you will be a step in the right direction of practical and perhaps even life-changing results. You may find that you agree with the Stoic philosophers in all ways, or you may choose rather to cherry-pick their ideas for approaches you can use with the things that mean the most to you. In the end, despite how it may seem, a book like this is less about the information it holds than the possibilities for transformation it suggests.

In our look at the ancient and practical philosophy of Stoicism, we will ask basic and probing questions about what it is to exist as a human being in this world, what life is all about, and how we can live in the most satisfying ways every day. We’ll ponder some of the most important things for our own personal self-understanding. We’ll even tackle head-on some of the most fundamental life issues that we too often merely dance around, and rarely ever address directly. This will be a book about some of the most fundamental human questions and insights.

Foolish Assumptions

In the way we present the ideas in this book, we’re basically going to assume that you’re new to philosophy as a way of thinking and living, but not that you’re new to all the questions and issues that philosophers ponder. We’re also going to assume you’re not a historian of the ancient world, or a classicist trained in Greek and Latin. And we’re not expecting that you’re already an expert on Stoicism and just want to read every new book written on this fascinating philosophy, as some big-time Stoic fans now seem to do.

If you are, however, a proud and credentialed representative of any such group, you’re also most welcome here. We have a lot for you. We cover the basics but break new ground, too. We pledge to work hard to keep you engaged and even entertained and to give you the chance to dig deep and think in new ways about matters that are vital to your life. And finally, we won’t assume but fervently will hope that you’ll have as much fun and as inspirational an experience probing this important and interesting philosophy as we have had and continue to experience as we ponder all these things in new ways.

Icons Used in This Book

Throughout this book, icons in the margins highlight certain types of valuable information that call out for your attention. Here are the icons you’ll find, and a brief description of each.

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The Warning icon tells you to watch out! It flags important cautionary notes that can save you intellectual confusion, needless effort, or the fallacious faux pas to be avoided.

Beyond the Book

In addition to the abundance of information and guidance related to the philosophical questions to be found in this book here in these pages, you can get access to even more help and information online at dummies.com. Check out this book’s Cheat Sheet there. (But don’t worry, it’s not the sort of cheating the very ethical Stoics would frown upon and steer you away from.) Just to go www.dummies.com and type “Stoicism For Dummies Cheat Sheet” in the search box.

Where to Go from Here

In the order of our chapters, we start by commenting on the incredible revival of Stoicism in our day, and especially among people who don’t ordinarily pursue ancient ideas for modern living or dive into philosophy with an eager zest to use it well. Then we begin from the beginning of ancient thought to give you a full context, in brief, for understanding the rise and nature of Stoicism, to help you get your bearings as we go on to explore their biggest ideas in later chapters.

We hope you’ll launch into your reading of the book in the normal manner, sequentially, cover to cover, as we’ve laid things out here, but you don’t have to — you can read it any way you like! Each chapter has been written in such a way as to basically stand on its own. Big ideas are introduced in early chapters that are revisited and developed more fully in later chapters. This means that there are certain recurring ideas, cropping up in more than one place, but in their various appearances, they’re developed in a variety of ways and tested from different angles in different contexts.

You can scan the table of contents and jump in anywhere you’d prefer to satisfy your appetite for whatever topic is on your mind right now, or to scratch any existential itch you may have. And yet, as in all things philosophical, the ideas here are all related to each other, and the perspective of any given chapter will be understood most fully and deeply in the context of what’s come before and what’s to be developed afterward. But you’re never locked in. Explore as you wish. And enjoy. We want you to have an adventure here and a great experience. Stoicism is in many ways a philosophy of liberation, and so we want you to feel free to read this book as you like. And then tell us what you think. We mean it! Philosophy is a very big conversation, across space and time. We’d love to hear your thoughts. But to start, now let us give you ours.

Part 1

Ancient Stoicism

IN THIS PART …

Discover why Stoicism is so popular in our time.

Dip into the history of ancient Stoicism.

Meet some Greek and Roman philosophers, and one amazing emperor.

Chapter 1

Stoicism: A Philosophy for Our Time

IN THIS CHAPTER

Introducing a philosophy for our time

Clarifying the ancient idea of philosophy

Using wisdom with the Stoics

As we write these words and then you read them, AI may be taking the world by storm. Yes, Artificial Intelligence, but also at the same time, Ancient Ideas. And to be more specific, some powerful perspectives from Stoic philosophers of long ago are suddenly spreading across contemporary culture in many countries at once and making a big difference in people’s lives and work. Ancient Stoicism, born in Greece and then refreshed and in a sense rebranded in imperial Rome, can help you think in new and powerful ways about the challenges and opportunities you face every day. Its aim is to free you from whatever troubles you and may be holding you back. Its purpose is to give you a new form of strength and courage that’s crucial in such a turbulent and uncertain world that we all face right now. And it’s rooted in the greatest source of power for good that you have: your character.

In this chapter, we look at what’s behind the current appeal of this very old and yet revolutionary way of thinking, feeling, and acting. And in the process, we can rediscover what’s perhaps the most profoundly useful view of philosophy ever developed.

A Way of Thought for Our Time

In just the last few years, Stoic philosophy has suddenly become wildly popular around the world, gaining massive attention across such diverse cultural domains as business, sports, entertainment, and the military. Books about the Stoics and their ideas are selling in the millions and hitting national bestseller lists over and over. Podcasts, websites, online discussion groups, and even sales of Stoic-themed T-shirts, medallions, and coffee mugs are surging. Tattoo artists are turning out renderings of Greek and Latin words, variously placed on the bodies of adherents to this ancient philosophy. Public speakers are picking up on the trend. There are business meetings, professional sports team gatherings, and military mindset training sessions that now focus on Stoic ideas. Top executives at banks, hospitals, tech companies and manufacturing firms are waking up and coming alive to the possibilities that Stoic ideas awaken. And at college campuses across the country, overflowing classes are now being offered on Stoicism, while even much younger students are beginning to show an interest.

It may be that this surprising trend is in part a rebound effect from a widespread sense of cultural distress, and even an entertainment industry in dynamic interplay with it, that in many ways have together become increasingly coarse, loud, and superficial over the years. It could also be a reaction against the toxic aspects of social media, the ever-growing stressors of modern work and family life, the decline of organized religion, and the increasing political ugliness on display around the world. In addition, this development might in part be a reasonable response to all the fear and uncertainty highlighted by the many new dangers of sudden lethal violence in everyday life, an ongoing global war on terrorism and gang threats that has no clear end in sight, and increasingly obvious and catastrophic climate change. Then, add in all the fast-paced economic and technological disruption that threatens to increase more, along with emerging threats to democracy and world peace, the lingering effects of the last Great Recession and, of course, the frightening and massively destabilizing Covid-19 pandemic.

While artificial general intelligence looms over us as both a great promise and big peril, and we’re often told a large asteroid careening through space just might have us in the crosshairs, it’s understandable that people want to get their bearings, calm down, and find ways of dealing with all the dangers and challenges that surround us. Whatever the sources are of this new hunger for a sense of purpose, personal meaning, inner strength, mental balance, and resilience in life, Stoicism as a result is going viral. There is a huge new desire expanding through many parts of the world for more information on the ideas deriving from this school of ancient Greek and Roman thought that has influenced major thinkers from distant times to the present day.

Hot philosophy in America

It’s rare for any form of philosophy to become highly popular in the United States, where we the co-authors live, and where a great deal of this new interest in the Stoics has been centered. To be blunt, our nation is a country that’s often considered a nonintellectual or even anti-intellectual place of practical-minded “doers.” But philosophy in fact has made major incursions into American life before.

During our founding period, the political ideas of thinkers like Aristotle, John Locke, David Hume, and Charles de Montesquieu were widely discussed. For a couple of decades in the late 19th century, the thoughts of Ralph Waldo Emerson, Henry David Thoreau, and many other philosophers in New England, within and around a form of thought known as transcendentalism, became common table talk among educated people and strongly influenced many aspects of life at the time. Then at the dawn of the 20th century, philosophers like William James and John Dewey sparked a brief boom across several decades in what came to be known as pragmatist philosophy, with ideas that filtered into many domains of American life.

Existentialism had a cultural run in the postwar 1940s and ’50s, but mostly among the Beat poets, authors, artists, and musicians. Zen Buddhism and other Eastern philosophies then experienced a broad popularity in the 1960s and ’70s, at first in what was broadly called the peace and love hippie counterculture, and then with widely spreading effects, spurred in part by the Beatles and other prominent celebrities and culture influencers, along with the increasing popularity of such healthful practices as yoga and meditation. And of course, the reverberation of that movement continues today.

But the current wave of fascination with Stoicism may be the biggest and broadest spread of interest in an ancient philosophy that America has ever seen. It certainly seems to be the fastest growing, at least if current trends continue.

The Stoic formula

At its core, the philosophy of Stoicism is about personal freedom, individual excellence, inner power, human equality, healthy communities, vibrant societies, and a radical recipe for inner tranquility and the possibilities of outer peace in the face of challenge, threat, adversity, massive uncertainty, and wildly unprecedented opportunity. We obviously live in a time of high anxiety, widespread throughout the population. While the dangers around us seem to be increasing at a rate never experienced before, our trusted institutions for helping us deal with the challenges of life appear to be stumbling and crumbling around us, throwing us more on our own in recent times. Where can we turn for help and resources?

Stoic philosophy seems to answer the life guidance needs that we now have in abundance. And a broad generalization may be safe to make about the motives most people have for their interest in it at present. Some people are attracted to Stoicism as a way to cope, while others see it as a way to conquer. But both these paths are based on developing inner character.

In fact, if Stoicism had a general motto, it just might be:

To Cope and Conquer with Character.

Many people combine within themselves these two desires, to cope and conquer, to shun all feelings of victimization and emerge victorious from our crazy cauldron of modern challenges. Individuals who want both these things perceive in this ancient philosophy a collection of surprisingly novel resources they never suspected they could find in ancient thought and use for practical results. On the surface of Stoicism, there are many tips and techniques for thinking and acting in new ways that can be amazingly helpful for dealing with the stresses we all face, affording us a new sense of calm and confidence as we navigate our daily difficulties and race into the future.

What Does “Philosophy” Even Mean?

The word “philosophy” comes from two Greek root words: philo, meaning love, and sophia, meaning wisdom. In its origins, philosophy was thought to be, simply, “the love of wisdom.” And of course, an object of love is always a distinctive thing: When you lack it, you pursue it, and when you have it, you embrace it. So, philosophy is etymologically the pursuit and embracing of wisdom, which is itself just embodied insight for living well.

The Roman lawyer, political advisor, and prominent Stoic author Seneca (4 BCE–65 CE) once put the insight like this:

In the first place then, if you approve, I’ll draw a distinction between wisdom and philosophy. Wisdom is the perfect good of the human mind. Philosophy is the love of wisdom and the endeavor to attain it. (Letters 89.4)

In another place, Seneca says what he thinks philosophy isn’t, as well as what it really is. And his words are as relevant now as they were in his day:

Philosophy is no trick to catch the public — it’s not devised for show. It’s a matter not of words but of facts. It’s not pursued so that the day may yield some amusement before it ends, or that our free time might be relieved of a tedium that irks us. It shapes and builds the soul. It orders our lives, guides our conduct, shows what we should do and what we should avoid. It sits at the helm and directs our course as we hesitate among uncertainties. Without it, no one can live fearlessly or with peace of mind. Countless things that happen every hour call for guidance, and such advice is to be sought in philosophy. (Letters 16.3)

Reflecting later on why he or anyone needs philosophy as a help in this world, the same Stoic thinker writes these words, as if addressing philosophy itself with his urgently felt needs:

What should I do? Death is on my trail and life is slipping by. Teach me something I can use to face these troubles. Give me courage to meet hardships, make me calm in the face of the unavoidable. Relax the confines of the time allowed me. Show me that the good in life doesn’t depend on life’s length but on the use we make of it. (Letters 49.9–10)

We can see here the depth and urgent practicality of what Seneca seeks. He values philosophy and the wisdom it brings for its needed usefulness in helping us to use all other things well. To pursue and practice wisdom is the key to everything else. But then, what is wisdom, exactly? How should we think about it? Many people in our time seem to get it wrong.

What Wisdom Is and Is Not

Wisdom is never just a collection of short, clever, and insightful sayings about life. It’s not mainly about slogans that could fit on a bumper sticker, ball cap, or T-shirt. In fact, it’s never at all at its essence a matter of simple statements or propositions about the world, or even about living in it, but rather it’s meant to be an inner reality within the soul, a progressively realized capacity of deep discernment for living well. When we attain a measure of genuine, authentic wisdom, we begin to grow stronger in it, or it begins to grow stronger in us. It’s a lifetime adventure of deepening that will help any other adventure go better.

Some aspects of this life-discernment can be captured in proverbs, aphorisms, or epigrams, but such statements at their best simply spark reminders, or new insight, a better orientation, a little needed tranquility, or a proper form of action in the world, and are never themselves the heart and soul of what wisdom really is. It’s a state of heart and mind. And in saying that, we’re using the ancient metaphor of the heart as referring to the center or core of our souls or selves in our fullness and complexity.

In a real sense, wisdom is a form of being in the world that doesn’t live in sentences but in you, if you’re wise. Wisdom is a state of mind and heart that affects your thoughts, feelings, attitudes, choices, and actions — forming and molding them all to better suit who you are and what the world is.

The prominent Stoic philosopher Epictetus (“ep-ic-TEE-tus,” c. 55–c. 135 CE) once said this about philosophy and the wisdom it brings:

What is it to do philosophy? Isn’t it to prepare yourself for whatever happens? (Discourses 3.10.6)

The Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius (121–180), another prominent Stoic thinker in his own right, and a man who had studied the thoughts of Epictetus, puts it this succinctly:

What then can guide us through life? Only philosophy. (Meditations 2.17)

Essentially, wisdom is about two things — guidance and guardrails. It’s then manifested in two ways. Imagine first a bright light shining forth in the darkness at the top of a steep hill far away, signaling where the key to your best life may be found. Wisdom is your ability to see and follow that light. Or envision wisdom alternatively as the capacity to use a GPS with directions giving you guidance on how to get to that illuminated hilltop. The road to it will be steep and twisty and there will be many dangers along the way.

The other aspect of wisdom, in augmentation of the guidance it gives, is the system of guardrails it provides. Like those low metal barriers found alongside modern roads through mountainous terrain, the guardrails of wisdom will protect you as you proceed and keep you from falling off the side of the road into an abyss, and crashing down in the valley below. Wisdom points you in the right direction and protects you as you go. Philosophy at its best is simply about pursuing and embracing the powerful inner and outer transformation that real wisdom can provide in your life.

Two sides of philosophy

These statements about philosophy and wisdom in the previous sections may surprise you if you’ve had an introductory philosophy course in almost any college or university in the past 50 years. About a hundred years ago, academic philosophy — the study of philosophy in the context of higher education — took a more formal or theoretical turn, perhaps in emulation of the natural sciences whose success and progress have been extraordinary.

And yet those sciences themselves were once part of philosophy. Throughout much of early modern history, the discipline of philosophy was divided into “Natural Philosophy” and “Moral Philosophy.” Natural philosophy was thought of simply as a study of the natural world in which we live. But as specific investigative techniques for learning more about various subject matters in the world began to be developed, natural philosophy gradually gave rise to the various disciplines of science that we know today, like biology, astronomy, physics, chemistry, psychology, and so on. In ancient times, it was the philosophers who studied all those things, trying to get their bearings in the world and seeking a deeper knowledge of the context in which we all live.

When the various empirical sciences defined themselves as distinct disciplines and spun off from the mothership of philosophical endeavor, a set of topics then broadly referred to as “moral philosophy” was basically what remained. It was mostly about us as people, as selves, and about our main forms of engagement with the broader world, encompassing matters of ethics, epistemology, or the theory of knowledge, logic, the philosophy of language, social and political philosophy, metaphysics, philosophy of religion, aesthetics, and other such areas. In modern classrooms for the past century or so, an introduction to philosophy might tackle a variety of topics outside the range of issues addressed by the various natural sciences, but in some ways the methods of approach used by philosophers now could look quite similar.

When philosophy professors approach such things as the nature of knowledge, our understanding of goodness, or theories of political organization, they tend to engage in activities of conceptual exploration and technical argument that can seem much like the scientific pursuit of understanding that goes on across campus in the various science lecture rooms and labs, but without all the elaborate equipment and mathematical formulas. And yet, with a focus on theory and a strict formalization of investigation meant to arrive at accurate and helpful theories, philosophy during the past century unintentionally but increasingly moved farther away from such issues as meaning and purpose, or how best to live and be in the world, questions that we all eventually confront in our daily lives and that modern Stoicism takes as its focus. From ancient times, Stoicism had theories about the world and our lives, but the purpose of theory was to provide for practice, to suggest ideas for daily living.

We can make something like a rough division, running through the centuries, of two contrasting forms of philosophy:

Theoretical philosophy, which is about analysis, argument, and the advancement of our ideas

Practical philosophy, which is about analysis, argument, and the advancement of our lives

There's a sense in which the fruit of analysis and argument in the one case is an assessment that provides a new twist in our intellectual understanding, and in the other case, it’s more like a new orientation or form of advice, which looks like a new twist on interpreting, feeling, and doing. But both endeavors count as proper philosophy, and each should relate to the other, because all is, in the end, somehow one.

And by the way, the best and deepest advice for living well will often look more like musings based on theory rather than like imperatives, nudges, or even helpful suggestions. The best theory advises us on new ways of thinking about something that puzzles us, which can then apply to the rough and tumble of daily life as well as to the theoretical conundrums of the seminar room. The founding Stoic philosophers did a lot of theorizing, but their ultimate intent and aim was practical. As Seneca writes:

Philosophy is both theoretic and practical; it contemplates and at the same time acts. (Letters 95.10)

Philosophy and life

As an aside, we should point out that vocal critics of philosophy — who frequently don’t really know what they’re talking about because they’ve never been serious students of the discipline — often complain about the study of philosophy, and especially its theoretical side, for never making any progress throughout the centuries. But this is just false. Ancient thinkers, philosophers during the Middle Ages, Enlightenment figures, 19th- and 20th-century intellectuals, and many professors of the subject in our time have made tremendous progress in understanding very difficult matters, and in many ways. But there are of course some subjects and ultimate issues that make theoretical leaps forward extremely difficult. Marcus Aurelius says:

Things are wrapped in such a veil of mystery that many good philosophers have found it impossible to make sense of them. (Meditations 5.10)

He then adds in the same passage:

Even Stoics have trouble.

We all hit intellectual limits eventually. But Marcus quickly turns from a concern with theoretical understanding and its boundaries to the more practical side of philosophy, and says to himself, in his capacity as emperor:

Don’t be a Caesar drunk on power and self-importance — it happens all too easily. Keep yourself simple, good, pure, sincere, natural, just, god-fearing, kind, affectionate, and devoted to your duty. Strive to be who your training in philosophy prepared you to be. Stay in awe of your Source and serve humanity. Life is short. The only good fruit to be harvested in this world requires a pious disposition and charitable conduct. (Meditations 6.30)

Many students for a very long time have signed up for a first philosophy course hoping to get their bearings in the world, and have discovered to their surprise that the professor seemed to spend most of the time talking about words like “Truth” or “Knowledge” or “Good” or “Justice” along with other bits of language that were then mined relentlessly for their conceptual content, to see precisely what ideas might lie behind them. But the Stoic teacher Epictetus, talking with one of his students who wanted to go give his own lecture on theory in such a way, focused on words, asks him:

Is it for this then that young men should leave their homelands and parents, to come and listen to you interpret words? When they get back home, shouldn’t they be people who are tolerant, helpful, imperturbable, and serene? Shouldn’t they be furnished with equipment for the journey of life that will empower them to endure everything that happens to them, and to endure it well and in a way that’s a credit to them? (Discourses 3.21.8,9)

We often think we need information when the real need is transformation. In the ancient world, philosophy was meant to be a transformative path, a way of life, and not just a mode of thinking, or the cumulative and codified results of such thinking. Philosophy was and is a particular embrace of life, along with a release of whatever gets in our way of living with inner peace, real excellence, and full flourishing in this world with others, while helping other people around us to do the same thing in a manner that’s right for them.

The Stoics also dealt with words, of course, and the ideas encoded in those words, or else we wouldn’t have their teachings available to us today. But they always used their words and ideas with a practical end in view. Elsewhere, Epictetus says:

What’s the fruit of these ideas? There could be no better or more proper fruit for people who are receiving a real education than tranquility, fearlessness, and freedom. (Discourses 2.1.21)

He even indicates later that he wants to help his students become good people who, precisely because of that goodness, are in a sense invincible. And this can never come from just collecting, reading, and memorizing philosophical ideas. It will only result from living them. In another passage Epictetus says:

It’s one thing to have bread and wine stored away, and another to use them. When you take something in, it’s digested and distributed around the body and turns into muscle, flesh, bones, blood, a good complexion, and good lungs. Stored things may be available for you to bring out and display whenever you want, but they don’t do you any good at all, apart from gaining a reputation for having them. (Discourses 2.9.18)

It’s in the end not what we have collected or know, but what we do with what we know, and what we become because of it, that matters most.

PRESENT DAY PHILOSOPHERS ON STOIC PHILOSOPHY

Many philosophers in our own day have rediscovered Stoic wisdom. Here’s a sample of what they say about it.

“Stoicism is a practical philosophy for everyday life. It’s about being in control of your emotions and not letting them control you.” —Massimo Pigliucci

“The Stoics believed that true happiness comes from within, not from external circumstances.” —William B. Irvine

“Stoicism is the philosophy of courage. It teaches us to face our fears and overcome them.” —Stephen Hanselman

“Stoicism is the philosophy of personal responsibility. It teaches us to focus on what we can control and let go of what we cannot.” —Donald Robertson

“Stoicism is a philosophy of personal ethics informed by its system of logic and its views on the natural world.” —Nancy Snow

“Stoicism is about finding inner peace and happiness through acceptance, not by avoiding negative emotions.” —Tanner Campbell

“Stoicism is a philosophy that emphasizes reason, ethics, and personal responsibility.” —Brad Inwood

“Stoicism is a way of life that emphasizes the development of self-control and the acceptance of what we cannot control.” —John Sellars

“Stoicism … teaches how to live a supremely happy and smoothly flowing life and how to retain that even in the face of adversity.” —Jonas Salzgeber

“Above all, Stoicism aims to make you skillful at life… . It sculpts your moral character into someone who is content, joyful, resilient, and able to take actions that make the world a better place.” —Matthew J. Van Natta

Using Wisdom with the Stoics

In this section, we're going to stick with the quotable Epictetus for a moment more. He was often concerned over some of his young students who came to study with him to learn a bit of theory about the world, and perhaps even more theory about our ways of living in the world, and were enjoying themselves so much that they wanted to stay in school and stick with theory as a sort of refuge from the world, instead of taking their new insights back into the world. When you read Epictetus, you quickly realize what a good teacher he was — full of great stories, images, metaphors, analogies, and even jokes. He was vivid and memorable. He comments in an interesting metaphorical way on those students who get really excited about the study of philosophy and seem to want to live only in their ideas, books, and seminar rooms. Imagining a conversation about such a person, and with such a person, he says this:

But what happens is that people behave like someone who’s on his way back to his homeland when he passes a great inn, and it delights him so much that he stays there. “Man, you’ve forgotten your purpose. You weren’t traveling to the inn but past it.” — “But it’s really nice.” — “There are plenty of nice inns, and lots of pretty meadows, too, but only as places on the way. You have a different mission, to return to your home and put an end to your family’s fear, and to engage in your duties as a citizen by getting married, raising children, and holding the customary offices. You didn’t come into the world to go around finding pleasant locations to enjoy, surely, but to live where you were born and where you’re a citizen.” (Discourses 2.23.36–39)

We were born into this world to live in and with its challenges as well as its opportunities, with its discomforts and conveniences, its pains and its pleasures, and are meant to use philosophy as a way of doing so, across all circumstances, wisely and well. But how can we do this? We need some sound advice, some helpful guidance. And philosophy offers exactly that.

The prominent Stoic thinker and highly placed political advisor Seneca speaks about this to one of his friends and writes in a letter:

Do you really want to know what philosophy offers humanity? Philosophy offers counsel. (Letters 48.8)

And in another place, he says even more succinctly:

Philosophy is good advice. (Letters 38.1)

This is not always what we get in modern philosophy classes and academic philosophy books. Seneca saw the problem even in his time. He writes:

We’re taught how to debate, not how to live. (Letters 95.14)

There is of course nothing wrong with debate. Ideas are often developed through it. And people can discover truth or become persuaded of it through the reasoned presentation of ideas in the form of rational argument that is found in debate. But while debate can be a useful technique of philosophy, it’s never the point of it.

Seneca makes the same point and expands on it in a latter correspondence. Our teachers can make mistakes in how they present philosophy to us, and we then often go on to repeat the same errors that we’ve been open to emulating because of our own inappropriate motives:

There are indeed mistakes made through the fault of our advisors who teach us how to debate and not how to live. There are also mistakes made by the students who come to their teachers to develop not their souls but their wits. (Letters 108.23)

Young philosophy students recently introduced to the power of sound reasoning easily become arrogantly argumentative, intensely critical of others and their ideas, and simply insufferable know-it-alls. They can become exactly the wrong sort of ambassador for the philosophical life. Seneca wants to cut this off and writes to his younger friend who is making his way in the discipline of ideas, and is presumably proud of his progress:

But you should never boast about philosophy, because if it’s used with insolence and arrogance, it’s been dangerous for many. Let philosophy strip off your faults, rather than helping you call out the faults of others. (Letters 103.5)

Happiness and freedom

Seneca is always bringing his initial reader and then all of us back to his view of what philosophy is all about:

My advice is this: That all study of philosophy and all reading should be applied to the idea of living the happy life, that we should not hunt out archaic or outlandish words and eccentric metaphors and figures of speech, but that we should seek guidelines that will help us, statements of courage and spirit that may at once be transformed into realities. We should so learn them that words may become deeds. (Letters 108.35–37)

His correspondence partner is concerned about the many forces in life that he feels to be oppressive, and the difficult things we can’t avoid, like disease and ultimately death. Seneca writes:

You ask, “How can I free myself?” You can’t escape necessities, but you can overcome them. It’s said that: “By force a way is made.” And this way will be given to you by philosophy. Go then to philosophy if you want to be safe, untroubled, happy, and ultimately if you wish to be — which is most important — free. There is no other way to attain this end. (Letters 37.4)

In another place he says about the ups and downs of life:

The power of philosophy to blunt the blows of chance is beyond belief. (Letters 53.12)

And he writes:

As much as you’re able, take refuge with philosophy. She’ll treasure you in her heart, and in her inner fortress you’ll be safe, or at least more so than you were before. (Letters 103.4)

At a relatively advanced age, he says:

Philosophy gives us this gift: It makes us joyful in the very sight of death, strong and brave no matter what physical condition we may be in, cheerful and never failing even if the body fails us. (Letters 30.3)

We often make fundamental mistakes in our approach to life that render us vulnerable to anxiety, worry, and fear. We sleepwalk through our days, far too often, and are surprised at what happens to us as a result. Seneca at one point concludes with this advice to his friend:

Let us then rouse ourselves so that we can correct our mistakes. Philosophy, however, is the only power that can stir us, the only power that can shake off our deep slumber. Devote yourself wholly to philosophy. You’re worth of her; she’s worthy of you. Greet each other with a loving embrace. (Letters 53.8)

Seneca has the view that, as long as we live, we should be learning how to live. And he’s convinced that this will be provided by an ongoing training in philosophy. Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius seem wholeheartedly to agree.

When to go to philosophy

Marcus even expresses the idea that any situation is perfect for the study of philosophy, so no good excuses are ever available to anyone who would rather put it off until another time, and perhaps another situation. He basically says this to himself during a war, while he’s leading the way in defending Rome: So you think you don’t have time for philosophy because you’re facing great pressures, perhaps exhaustion, and endless responsibilities? It’s a surprising general truth that, because of the nature and universal applicability of philosophy:

Clearly, no situation is better suited for the practice of philosophy than the one you’re in right now. (Meditations 11.7)

At one point, the philosopher Seneca weighs in and suggests to his friend:

Find a list of the philosophers. That very act will compel you to wake up when you see how many men have been working for your benefit. You’ll want to be one of them yourself. For this is the most excellent quality the noble soul has within itself, that it can be roused to honorable things. (Letters 39.2)

He later adds this great thought:

Philosophy did not find Plato already a nobleman; it made him one. (Letters 44.3)

We should go to philosophy for clear ideas and helpful principles, and the most useful of these are meant to lead to practices — habits and routines of thought, feeling, and action that will put the ideas into play in the tough and wonderful world around us, transforming us along the way so that we can become, be, do, and feel all that is our calling as alert, alive, conscious beings of reason. We are all on a journey that can often perplex us, but that will also develop and grow us when we let it. And philosophy can help us with that.

If you’re intrigued by what these Stoics have to say about philosophy and its proper role in life, then read on. There aren’t many schools of thought in our time that make such promises and offer such perspectives. You may find here much that you can use. You might even become a Stoic yourself. But the aim of the great Stoics of the past wasn’t really to recruit and make other people Stoics, but rather to help us all become good people, ready for life and well prepared to live in all the best ways.

Chapter 2

Socrates and the Beginnings of Western Philosophy

IN THIS CHAPTER

Understanding the origins of Western philosophy

Getting clear on Heraclitus the Obscure

Meeting Socrates, the first great Western philosopher

Introducing the scruffy street-philosophers, the Cynics

The story of Stoicism begins in ancient Greece more than 2,300 years ago. Before we dive into what Stoicism is all about, it’s helpful to understand a little bit about how it got its start.

Socrates famously said that “philosophy begins in wonder.” In ancient Greece, philosophical reflection first seemed to find its way into the world around 600 BCE when a small group of thinkers in the Greek cities of Ionia (now part of western Turkey) began asking new kinds of fundamental questions about our existence in the universe. Prior to this, efforts to explain reality were usually made in terms of religion or mythology (Zeus, Apollo, Athena, and all those other fun-loving deities). For example, eclipses and thunderbolts were commonly seen then as signs of divine anger. And then, by contrast, in certain areas of ancient Greece, systematic efforts were made for the first time to explain things substantially in terms of natural, observable, physical causes. This revolutionary step marked the beginnings of both Western philosophy and science.

As we’ll discuss in this chapter, thinkers like Heraclitus, Socrates, and the Cynics set the stage for the Stoics. In various ways they had all sown the seeds for a distinctive philosophy that would later take root, grow, and blossom. The Stoics drew from all these earlier sages, as well as others, such as Plato and Aristotle, to create their own unique and fascinating philosophy and wisdom-centered way of life that continues to inspire us today.

Heraclitus the (Cranky and) Obscure

One important early Greek philosopher who greatly influenced the Stoics had the well-deserved name of “Heraclitus the Obscure.” The man was apparently a curmudgeonly, “Hey-kids-get-off-my-lawn” kind of guy who lived around 500 BCE in Ephesus, a once thriving Greek city that is now in Western Turkey. People called him “The Obscure” because he wrote in pithy, cryptic sentences, and half the time nobody knew what the heck he was talking about. Scholars are still scratching their heads over many of his enigmatic sayings, though some are pretty clear and suitable for printing on T-shirts and bumper stickers, like “Everything is always changing” and “Character is destiny.”

Heraclitus seems to have believed that the entire cosmos is alive, a gigantic living organism infused with a kind of divine “force” he called the Logos, a Greek word with numerous meanings, including “reason,” “word,” “rational utterance,” and “really boring study of,” as in modern phrases and words like symbolic logic, physiology, and microbiology. Just kidding about the “boring” part. (Sort of.)

Anyway, Heraclitus said that fire (not water, air, or tapioca pudding) was the basic stuff of reality, and he thought of the Logos as a kind of invisible fiery vapor that pervades all of nature and gives it purpose, direction, and rational order. According to Heraclitus, Logos directs and determines everything that comes to pass. Nothing in reality, he suggests, is truly permanent or stable; the cosmos is an ever-changing flux of ceaseless, kaleidoscopic change. Buddhists, in their notion of “impermanence” (annica), believe something similar. So do astute observers of the stock market.