Family Worship E-Book

Donald S. Whitney

• Herausgeber: Crossway
• Kategorie: Religion und Spiritualität
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2020

Seitenzahl: 90

Beschreibung

Gathering together for worship is an indispensable part of your family's spiritual life. It is a means for God to reveal himself to you and your loved ones in a powerful way. This practical guide by Donald S. Whitney will prove invaluable to families—with or without children in the home—as they practice God-glorifying, Christ-exalting worship through Bible reading, prayer, and singing. Includes a discussion guide in the back for small groups.

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“A sure-fire way to enhance family togetherness is to make worship a priority in your home. Don Whitney has laid out a practical guide for parents (especially fathers) to get from ‘we should’ to ‘we can and do.’”

Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family

“Family Worship by Don Whitney is priceless. Starting with the Bible, Whitney makes a compelling case for family worship and illustrates it richly with historical examples. He even answers the frequently asked questions and responds to common objections. This book is persuasive, practical, and—most of all—doable.

Tedd Tripp, Pastor; international conference speaker; author, Shepherding a Child’s Heart

“If I could choose anyone to write a book on family worship, it would be Don Whitney. He has years of experience and wisdom on spiritual formation. But, even more than that, he is a father who has led well and consistently in his own home. This book will equip you to lead your family in worship, without fear or awkwardness or intimidation. This book could change your home, and you will be glad for the change.”

Russell Moore, President, The Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission; author, Onward

“I love this little book. It is clear, biblical, and practical. It gives hope and direction for anyone to read, pray, and sing. The ‘what if’ chapter is worth the price of the book. I highly recommend it!”

Martha Peace, Biblical Counselor; author, The Excellent Wife

“Don Whitney has written a book we truly need. This book belongs in every Christian home and in the hands of every Christian parent.”

R. Albert Mohler, Jr., President and Joseph Emerson Brown Professor of Christian Theology, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

“Family Worship is a great introduction to a topic of great importance. I recommend it for any and all Christian families.”

Tim Challies, author, The Next Story; blogger, Challies.com

“As the father of five young children, family worship is a regular and indispensable component of our family time. For many years now, my family has benefited from Don Whitney’s book Family Worship as a helpful guide to family devotions and the spiritual formation of our children. I heartily recommend it for every family, both those new to family worship and those who have practiced family devotions for many years.”

Jason K. Allen, President, Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and College

“Once again I am excited about a book by Don Whitney. This time he provides us with a biblical and historical foundation for family worship. In addition he gives us a practical guide to know what and how to lead your family during this time. What a unique book. Whitney knows the benefits of every spiritual discipline.”

Miguel Núñez, Senior Pastor, International Baptist Church of Santo Domingo; President, Wisdom and Integrity

“We have removed the worship of almighty God from the home and we are reaping the whirlwind. Family Worship is a biblical, accessible, and indispensable call to arms. It is perfect for the scores of Christian parents who want to impact their families, but have no idea where to start. Praise God for men like Don Whitney who love the Lord and the church enough to speak such truth without apology.”

Voddie Baucham Jr., Dean, African Christian University Seminary; author, Family Driven Faith

“This is a magnificent achievement and so very needed.”

Derek W. H. Thomas, Minister of Preaching and Teaching, First Presbyterian Church, Columbia, South Carolina; Professor of Systematic Theology and Historical Theology, Reformed Theological Seminary

“I appreciate Whitney’s contribution to this important area, and it is my prayer that God will use this widely to strengthen families in the area of home worship.”

Daniel L. Akin, President, Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary

Family Worship

Donald S. Whitney

Family Worship

Copyright © 2016 by Donald S. Whitney

Published by Crossway1300 Crescent StreetWheaton, Illinois 60187

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First printing 2016

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Trade paperback ISBN: 978-1-4335-6722-3 ePub ISBN: 978-1-4335-6722-9 PDF ISBN: 978-1-4335-6723-0 Mobipocket ISBN: 978-1-4335-6724-7

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Whitney, Donald S. (Professor)

 Family worship / Donald S. Whitney.

  1 online resource.

 Includes bibliographical references and index.

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 1. Families—Religious life. 2. Worship. I. Title.

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Contents

Introduction

 1  As for Me and My House, We Will Serve the Lord

Family Worship in the Bible

 2  Here the Reformation Must Begin

Family Worship in Church History

 3  Read, Pray, and Sing

The Elements of Family Worship

 4  No Family Worship Situation Is Unique

But What If . . . ?

 5  Isn’t This What You Really Want to Do?

Start Today

Discussion Guide

Notes

Scripture Index

About the Author

For my family—past, present, and future

and

For my spiritual family in Christ—local and universal

Introduction

Some time ago, I was in England and heard a report on BBC radio about a government study there which indicated that as a result of TV, technology, and the like, families rarely spend time together. The study observed that conversation between family members has “degenerated into an indistinguishable series of monosyllabic grunts.” And what was the recommended solution to this dilemma? The government should teach a series of classes instructing families how to talk and play together.

I immediately thought of at least two responses to this report. First, things are really bad when the government believes that the family is in trouble. Second, God has a much better plan for family time together than anything presented in classes taught by the government.

I had gone to England to speak at a conference. Around the table there one evening, I heard the story of a minister’s family who had not acted as though God has a better plan until it was too late. The minister’s widow told me that the greatest regret of her life was that her late husband had not begun leading their family in the daily worship of God together until after he was diagnosed with terminal cancer.

Contrast that with a story sent to me by a friend describing what he and his four siblings said at their parents’ fiftieth wedding anniversary celebration. He wrote,

All five of us children decided to express thanks to our father and mother for one thing without consulting each other. Remarkably, all five of us thanked our mother for her prayers and all five of us thanked our father for his leadership of . . . family worship. My brother said, “Dad, the oldest memory I have is of tears streaming over your face as you taught us from Pilgrim’s Progress on Sunday evenings how the Holy Spirit leads believers. [When I was only] three, God used you in family worship to convict me that Christianity was real. No matter how far I went astray in later years [though today he’s an elder in his church], I could never seriously question the reality of Christianity and I want to thank you for that.”1

Various studies, as well as our own experiences in local church ministry, bear witness to the reality that a high percentage of churchgoing teenagers leave the church once they finish high school. One of the leading problems with this issue is that, unlike the siblings at the fiftieth wedding anniversary celebration, most of these young people have no early, sweet memories of family worship. Such recollections, if they had them, might help prevent their departure from the faith in the first place. Or if they do walk away, the memories might be the means to turn their hearts to seek God again later.

The great British Baptist preacher of the 1800s Charles Spurgeon spoke to this issue, saying,

Brethren, I wish it were more common, I wish it were universal, with all [Christians] to have family prayer. We sometimes hear of children of Christian parents who do not grow up in the fear of God, and we are asked how it is that they turn out so badly. In many, very many cases, I fear there is such a neglect of family worship that it’s not probable that the children are at all impressed by any piety supposed to be possessed by their parents.2

I am persuaded from my own ministry experience in hundreds of churches that so little family worship regularly exists in Christian homes today, that even in most of our best churches, most of our best men do not even pray with their wives (and children if they have them) much less lead them in ten minutes or so of worship as a family.

A survey by the Barna Research Group supports that claim. According to this report,

Eighty-five percent of parents with children under age 13 believe they have primary responsibility for teaching their children about religious beliefs and spiritual matters. However, a majority of parents don’t spend any time during a typical week discussing religious matters or studying religious materials with their children. . . . Parents generally rely upon their church to do all of the religious training their children will receive.3

Having your family in a Christ-exalting, gospel-centered, Bible-teaching local church is crucial to Christian parenting. But it is not enough for conveying to your family all you want to teach them about God and your beliefs. Moreover, it is unlikely that exposure to the church once or twice a week will impress your children enough with the greatness and glory of God that they will want to pursue him once they leave your home.

This is why family worship is so important. But even more importantly, God deserves to be worshiped daily in our homes by our families.4